In this episode of Table Pancakes, Katherine and Shelbi explore the discourse of friend groups, unpacking the benefits and drawbacks of these social dynamics to determine whether the criticism is fair.

What We Cover:Are We Mad at Something We All Want?

• Eli Rallo’s TikTok sparked debate by claiming friend groups are terrible and limiting
• Many people desire to be part of a friend group, so this take may validate those who feel excluded
• While cliques can create negative experiences, “friend group” is a broad term that varies based on the people and the dynamics at play

Pro-Camaraderie, Anti-Groupthink

• Friend groups can be more challenging to form in adulthood, but they no longer resemble the rigid cliques of high school
• Beyond belonging, groups expand experiences, foster playfulness, and create spontaneity
• When friends move away, the group dynamic becomes a key way to stay connected across distance

Seasons of Socialization & Going Out

• Friendship has seasons, but socializing is also impacted by the four seasons themselves, with winter often bringing more exclusivity
• The pandemic shifted how people go out and build community, and many are still adjusting
• Embracing parties just because, less overthinking when making plans, and being okay with the natural friction of leaving the house

Question of the Week:

What do you think about friend groups and their role in your life? How do your group dynamics (or one-on-one friendships) shape how you spend your social time?

Spring Break Announcement:

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