Today's episode includes a couple of lists of qualities, which are jotted down here for your ease of reference.Qualities of a true friend, according to the Buddha.<ul><li>Is a help and support</li><li>Is the same in happiness and sorrow</li><li>Advises his friend for his welfare</li><li>Is sympathetic</li></ul>Ven Tenzin also mentions Jean Baker Miller's list of five phenomena of growth-enhancing relationships.<ul><li>Each person feels a great sense of zest (vitality).</li><li>Each person feels more able to act, and does act.</li><li>Each person has a more accurate picture of her/himself and the other person(s).</li><li>Each person feels a greater sense of self-worth.</li><li>Each person feels more connected to the other person(s) and greater motivation for connections with other people.</li></ul>

Today's episode includes a couple of lists of qualities, which are jotted down here for your ease of reference. Qualities of a true friend, according to the Buddha.Is a help and supportIs the same in happiness and sorrowAdvises his friend for his welfareIs sympatheticVen Tenzin also mentions Jean Baker Miller's list of five phenomena of growth-enhancing relationships.Each person feels a great sense of zest (vitality).Each person feels more able to act, and does act.Each person has a more accurate picture of her/himself and the other person(s).Each person feels a greater sense of self-worth.Each person feels more connected to the other person(s) and greater motivation for connections with other people.

Today's episode includes a couple of lists of qualities, which are jotted down here for your ease of reference.Qualities of a true friend, according to the Buddha.<ul><li>Is a help and support</li><li>Is the same in happiness and sorrow</li><li>Advises his friend for his welfare</li><li>Is sympathetic</li></ul>Ven Tenzin also mentions Jean Baker Miller's list of five phenomena of growth-enhancing relationships.<ul><li>Each person feels a great sense of zest (vitality).</li><li>Each person feels more able to act, and does act.</li><li>Each person has a more accurate picture of her/himself and the other person(s).</li><li>Each person feels a greater sense of self-worth.</li><li>Each person feels more connected to the other person(s) and greater motivation for connections with other people.</li></ul>&nbsp;

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Unlocking True Happiness is an exploration of the Buddha’s teachings as they are applied in our daily lives to deepen our experience of genuine well-being.  Topics combine ideas from Buddhism with those from the fields of positive psychology, Western philosophy, and current events. People from all faiths and backgrounds can apply the principles explored in this series to enhance their lives.

Tenzin Chogkyi  (she/her/hers) is a teacher of workshops and programs that bridge the worlds of Buddhist thought, contemplative practice, mental and emotional cultivation, and the latest research in the field of positive psychology. She is also a certified teacher of Compassion Cultivation Training and the Cultivating Emotional Balance program. Tenzin is especially interested in bringing the wisdom of Buddhism into modern culture and into alignment with modern cultural values such as racial and gender justice and environmental awareness. She feels strongly that a genuine and meaningful spiritual path includes not only personal transformation, but social and cultural transformation as well. She loves interfaith collaboration and is a volunteer for the Interfaith Speakers Bureau of the Islamic Networks Group in the greater San Francisco Bay Area. In addition to her monthly radio show called “Reflections on Buddhism on KSQD 90.7 she also finds time to create her Unlocking True Happiness podcast which you can check out at unlockingtruehappiness.org where you will also find her current teaching schedule. She is currently based on traditional Awaswas Ohlone land, in what is now known as Santa Cruz, CA.

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Unlocking True Happiness is an exploration of the Buddha’s teachings as they are applied in our daily lives to deepen our experience of genuine well-being. Topics combine ideas from Buddhism with those from the fields of positive psychology, Western philosophy, and current events. People from all faiths and backgrounds can apply the principles explored in this series to enhance their lives. Tenzin Chogkyi (she/her/hers) is a teacher of workshops and programs that bridge the worlds of Buddhist thought, contemplative practice, mental and emotional cultivation, and the latest research in the field of positive psychology. She is also a certified teacher of Compassion Cultivation Training and the Cultivating Emotional Balance program. Tenzin is especially interested in bringing the wisdom of Buddhism into modern culture and into alignment with modern cultural values such as racial and gender justice and environmental awareness. She feels strongly that a genuine and meaningful spiritual path includes not only personal transformation, but social and cultural transformation as well. She loves interfaith collaboration and is a volunteer for the Interfaith Speakers Bureau of the Islamic Networks Group in the greater San Francisco Bay Area. In addition to her monthly radio show called “Reflections on Buddhism on KSQD 90.7 she also finds time to create her Unlocking True Happiness podcast which you can check out at unlockingtruehappiness.org where you will also find her current teaching schedule. She is currently based on traditional Awaswas Ohlone land, in what is now known as Santa Cruz, CA.

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