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All right.

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Hello.

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Hello everyone.

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How are you guys doing?

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Hope you guys are having a fabulous day.

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Hope you had a fabulous day

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I know I did my arm is

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still a little bit messed up.

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I went in yesterday I think

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I guys told you guys that I

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went to the va got my shot

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and my arm was banging

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yesterday It is still yet banging now

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But it's okay because that's

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not going to stop me My arm

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is just going to do what it

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does and it will eventually

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of course come around to

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being back to normal so for now,

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it's just a little bit sore,

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but Before we get into all

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the good stuff and juicy

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stuff about what we're

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talking about Which is

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talking about friendship

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and I love talking about friendship Uh,

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but before we do that,

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we are going to do what

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what we always do So I'm

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not even going to tell you guys

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because I'm just going to do

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my Q and I'll be back.

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All right, so I am back.

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Hello.

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Hello Okay,

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so we are going to talk about

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friendship and friendship

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is a gift It's a gift and I

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said friendship is a gift

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do not abuse it and I've been uh,

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I guess this has been a

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thing For me and I have

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always really Enjoyed

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having good friends solid friends

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But it's when you have those

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friends that you thought

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were friends and they

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really turned out to not be friends.

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Oh, my.

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It turns out to be something else.

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So I was just watching a

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couple of clips that were on Instagram.

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One was one of these actresses was saying,

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if you want to if you want

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to have a friendship,

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if you want to have friends, guess what?

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The great verse.

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And I'm going to quote the

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verse that she said and

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read the whole thing.

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KJV, it says a man.

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that hath friends, show himself friendly.

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And there is a friend that

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sticketh closer than a brother.

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So basically you got to be

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friendly in order to have friends.

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And sometimes people are not friendly,

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but they want friends,

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but then they don't act accordingly,

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which is strange to me.

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And I have always loved to

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show myself friendly.

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I do that and I kind of give

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that off wherever I go.

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So if people randomly talk

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to me in the store and they

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just start a conversation with me,

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it doesn't matter.

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I can try to avoid them all I want,

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but I really just,

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it comes out of me like, hey,

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she looks like a nice person to talk to.

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Let me talk to her about my life,

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even though I don't even know her.

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Hashtag like what?

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But before I used to really uh years ago,

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I think I've shared this

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before I used to really not

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like that I would not like

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people coming up and

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telling me their business.

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I don't know them They don't know me,

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but they felt comfortable

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enough to share really

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really important and very

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Detailed personal things of

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their life to me this random person

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And it always happened in

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the grocery store.

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Now it could have happened other places,

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but the grocery store is

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the place where I get it the most.

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I don't know.

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It's the grocery store.

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I could go to other stores too.

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And I might get a couple of conversations,

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but the grocery store says, there she is.

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She needs to talk to you.

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This is her counseling place.

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It wouldn't matter what

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grocery store I'm in.

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It happens everywhere I go.

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So, um, not as much as at Sprouts, but, uh,

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other, other grocery stores.

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But so there was a few

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different occasions and I

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remember them very well

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because I was looking for

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that conversation.

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And there was a woman and

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I'm minding my business, mind y'all.

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I'm going and I'm walking

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and I go in the cracker

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aisle and there was nobody

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there but this older lady.

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And I'm looking at these crackers,

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like if I should get red saltines,

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I don't know.

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And I'm just like debating

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in my head if I should get

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Cheez-Its because I know I

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have a lactose problem.

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I'm like doing all this

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debating in my head about crackers.

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And she comes up to me and says, you know,

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my son passed away.

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I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.

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My condolences.

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And she's like, yeah.

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And I haven't changed his

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room since he's passed.

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And it's been a long time in his room.

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It just it just stays the

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same and I've never Changed

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anything in his room.

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It's still left the same

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exact way Now I'm in the

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cracker aisle this is in

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the grocery store I didn't

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warrant this because I

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wasn't looking at her but

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she came and she talked to

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me about something very

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very personal that's

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personal I don't care what

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people say like

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You know,

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people could talk about death all

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the time.

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Yes and no, right?

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If they don't care, they'll tell you, yeah,

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someone so-and-so hurt and

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then they pass away.

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Okay, but this is someone that they love,

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that they know intimately.

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This is their child.

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She does not know me in

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order to open up with

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something so vulnerable and

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transparent of something like that,

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right?

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