No One Fights Alone

From Chaos to Connection: Victoria Newman on Law Enforcement Marriages


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On this episode of the No One Fights Alone podcast, Host Brad Shepherd and Co-Host Ben Pearson sit down with Victoria M. Newman, a best-selling author, law enforcement advocate, and Founder of How2LoveOurCops. With a deep passion for supporting law enforcement families, Victoria shares her powerful insights on resilience, relationships, and the unseen challenges faced by those who stand behind the badge. Don’t miss this impactful conversation!

Victoria M. Newman

Author | Law Enforcement Advocate | Founder of How2LoveOurCops

Victoria M. Newman (Vicki) is an accomplished author and the wife of Chief Brent Newman of the California Highway Patrol. She has written multiple books focused on supporting law enforcement families, drawing from her own experiences and the challenges faced by officers and their loved ones.

In response to the rising number of LODDs and suicides within the department, Victoria researched and wrote A CHiP on My Shoulder—How to Love Your Cop with Attitude in 2011, offering insight and encouragement for law enforcement spouses.

She later co-wrote Selfish Prayer with SSG Emmett Spraktes, a military book that gave her a deeper understanding of the emotional toll of war. In 2015, she published A Marriage in Progress—Tactical Support for Law Enforcement Relationships, providing practical guidance for couples navigating the demands of a law enforcement career.

For ten years, Victoria homeschooled her children, a time she considers precious. Now, with her children grown and building their own paths, she enjoys watching them contribute positively to the world. She also treasures her grandson with golden curls, who brings joy and laughter to her life.

Victoria is the Founder and President of How2LoveOurCops, where she uses her skills in writing, speaking, networking, and mentoring to support law enforcement families. She is passionate about helping others through connection and advocacy.

Outside of her work, Victoria enjoys telling her famous “Chubby” story, cooking, and is a forensic crime show enthusiast.

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No One Fights AloneBy Brad Shepherd, Ben Pearson & Max Morgan