What if the life you're trying so hard to control is actually asking you to surrender?

In this episode of Big Soft Energy, I'm joined by alignment coach and one of my close friends, Alyssa Moore, for a deep conversation on feminine energy, intuition, self-trust, and what it really means to live in alignment.

We talk about how childhood experiences, survival mode, and independence can keep us operating in our masculine energy, why intuition feels completely different from anxiety, and how learning to soften doesn't mean giving up your strength—it means trusting yourself enough to stop forcing what isn't meant for you.

We also dive into:

• How to tell the difference between intuition and fear
• Why self-trust is built through small promises to yourself
• The power of emotional regulation and choosing the next best thought
• Healing from toxic patterns in friendships and relationships
• What alignment actually looks like in everyday life
• Navigating single motherhood, independence, and learning to receive
• Why other people's lives aren't competition—they're mirrors for your own desires

This episode feels like sitting down with your big sister after a long week—the kind of conversation that leaves you feeling seen, grounded, and reminded that you don't have to have everything figured out today.

If you've been craving more peace, more softness, and a deeper connection to yourself, this one's for you!