Getting Free

From courtship to court


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The women fall in love, or they decide to give a nice guy a chance. But red flags start to pop up. There’s abuse. And the women escape. A normal divorce story would end there, but they’re still trapped. They’re agunot- “chained women.” That’s because their husbands refuse to give them a religious divorce, known as a gett

 The women in Getting Free are professionals, mothers, neighbors, and leaders. This is where their fight for freedom begins.

 

In This Episode
  • Why withholding a religious divorce (gett) is abuse and a violation of Jewish law
  • What it means to be an agunah — a “chained woman”
  • Why the agunah crisis affects women across denominations and levels of observance
  • How coercive control escalates and what finally pushes women to leave
  • Key Moments
    • [00:04:35]Julia decides to leave her marriage. 
    • [00:08:35] What is a gett?
    • [00:17:25] Red flags begin to appear.
    • [00:21:03] What is coercive control?
    • [00:23:33] The moment they decide to leave.
    • Learn more, access resources, and read the full transcript at https://www.internationalbeitdin.org/gettingfree/.
       
      If you or someone you know is being denied a gett, confidential support is available at https://www.internationalbeitdin.org/get-help/
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      Getting FreeBy International Beit Din