Terry, a social worker from Amherst, New York, now residing in Florida, shares her roller coaster journey of financial abuse in a relationship.  She details how her partner, initially kind, later struggled with financial stability and drug abuse.  Despite her efforts to support him, including lending money and providing a home, Terry faced repeated financial strain and evictions.  She emphasizes the importance of seeking support, including therapy and legal resources, and advises others to protect their financial information and seek help from organizations like the Domestic Violence Coalition. Terry's story highlights the long-term impact of financial abuse and the importance of self-care and community support in recovery. 

 

KEY HIGHLIGHTS: 

• Seek support from a therapist or domestic violence coalition. 
• Protect your financial information, including passwords, bank accounts and credit cards. 
• Consider opening a PO box and have your mail delivered there. 
• Be patient and extend grace to yourself during the recovery process. 
• Focus on your own financial health and goals, even if it takes time. 
• Consider sharing your story and advocating for others who have experienced financial abuse. 

 

 

LINKS AND RESOURCES: 

National Coalition to End Domestic Violence

www.financialabusehelp.net