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This conversation is raw, practical, and hopeful. Eddie Soliz opens up about growing up around gangs and violence, the moments that could have ended his life or sent him to prison, and the split-second decision to surrender to truth and put God first. What follows is a blueprint for turning pain into purpose: choosing fatherhood over pride, replacing chaos with character, and building a gym that trains bodies while restoring people. If you lead a family, coach a team, or own a gym, this episode hands you repeatable systems—standards, structure, and service—that create real change in the real world.

Why this matters We’re raising kids in a clout-driven culture where “fight club” clips rack views while consequences get ignored. Eddie doesn’t hand you slogans; he gives you standards. He shows how obedience beats talent when you show up daily, how truth (not hype) rebuilds trust, and how a gym can be more than a room of weights—it can be a place where young men and women see a better model and learn to lead themselves.

Key themes & takeaways

• Surrender → Structure: Change starts with brutal honesty. Eddie explains how surrendering to truth led to clear daily disciplines—prayer, training, scheduling, and service.
• Standards > Feelings: Parenting, coaching, and business leadership all work better with non-negotiables. Standards protect what matters when feelings get loud.
• Fatherhood & Mentorship: Real love isn’t soft; it’s present, consistent, and corrective. Hear how Eddie addresses youth “fight club” culture with clear boundaries and real consequences.
• Identity & Belonging: Discovering his Native roots gave Eddie a stronger sense of heritage and humility, which reshaped how he serves his family, members, and city.
• Values-Driven Gym: House of Pain runs on structure and service: on-time start/finish, clear expectations, accountable coaching, and a culture where character practices as hard as squats.
• Business that Serves: Systems, not slogans—onboarding flows, attendance rules, follow-ups, and role-modeled behavior from the top make the gym profitable and transformational.

Chapters

00:00 — Cold open: “Prepared for death or jail”

06:10 — The breaking point and the decision to tell the truth

11:40 — Putting God first: obedience and daily discipline

18:05 — Fatherhood, mentorship, and confronting “fight club” culture

24:20 — Building House of Pain: standards, structure, service

32:45 — Identity, Native heritage, and leading with humility

41:20 — Fitness as spiritual practice: structure, sobriety, stewardship

50:00 — Business plays: systems that make values visible

57:10 — Weekly challenge + final word of hope