In this powerful episode of The Lease Road Commute, hosts Ray Belcher and Rick Bergman sit down with Ernie Kruger—a former professional rugby player turned missionary and pastor. From growing up in South Africa to navigating fame, faith, and fatherhood, Ernie shares his raw story of transformation and what it means to be a man of purpose in a chaotic world.You’ll hear honest reflections on identity, spiritual crisis, and the power of brotherhood. Ernie also unpacks the danger of isolation, the myth of retirement, and why men must be providers, protectors, and lovers.Whether you're in the oil fields of West Texas or balancing fatherhood and career, this episode offers timely encouragement and truth. Don’t miss this one.Recorded at Forty Wolves Podcast Studio in Midland, Texas.Subscribe for more episodes of The Lease Road Commute.Chapters:00:00 – Welcome & Introductions02:45 – Ernie’s West Texas Return & Cowboy Hat Story05:30 – Growing Up in South Africa & Rugby Dreams10:15 – Fame Without Fulfillment: Hitting Rock Bottom14:40 – A Friend’s Faithful Influence18:00 – Discovering Real Faith21:35 – Why Men Replace God with Work26:00 – The Power of Brotherhood & “Me + 3”30:45 – Finding Help in Crisis Moments36:10 – How to Cultivate Deep Male Friendships40:30 – Redefining Success Through Faith & Family46:20 – Embracing Crisis as Part of Calling52:10 – Purpose in the Chaos56:00 – What It Means to Be a Man: Provide, Protect, Love1:02:00 – Final Encouragement to Men in Hard Places1:04:15 – Closing Thoughts & Thanks