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From Self-Reliance to Surrender — Letting God Into the Healing Process
You’ve done the therapy, the journaling, the affirmations — but you still feel like you’re carrying everything alone.
You say you trust God… but deep down, you’re terrified to let go.
This episode is for the woman who’s tired of doing it all herself — the woman whose trauma identity built her independence, but now keeps her from real intimacy, peace, and love.
I’m sharing how self-reliance is actually a trauma response that feels empowering because it once kept you safe — but now it’s blocking what God’s trying to give you.
We’ll talk about:
✨ Why trusting God feels so scary for trauma survivors
✨ How bad church experiences or absent father figures create self-protection patterns
✨ Why surrender isn’t weak — it’s the most powerful thing you can do
✨ How partnering with God in your healing transforms every area of your life — not just your love life
When you surrender to God, you’re not losing control — you’re gaining peace.
He’s not taking power away from you — He’s restoring it to you.
Scriptures referenced:
Proverbs 3:5-6 • 2 Corinthians 12:9 • Matthew 11:28
If you’ve been stuck between striving and surrender, this is your invitation to let God into the healing process and finally rest in His strength instead of your own.
NEXT STEPS:
Inside The Healing Room Waitlist and Rewritten, I help women break free from survival mode, rebuild their self-concept in Christ, and bring God into the parts of their love life they’ve been trying to fix alone.
Topics: self reliance, surrender to god, christian healing, trauma healing with jesus, faith and identity, identity in christ, christian podcast for women, letting god in, healing with god, nervous system healing, faith and trauma, christian transformation, jesus changed my life, trust god not yourself, no more breadcrumbs podcast, kim velez
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By Kim VelezYou’ve done the therapy, the journaling, the affirmations — but you still feel like you’re carrying everything alone.
You say you trust God… but deep down, you’re terrified to let go.
This episode is for the woman who’s tired of doing it all herself — the woman whose trauma identity built her independence, but now keeps her from real intimacy, peace, and love.
I’m sharing how self-reliance is actually a trauma response that feels empowering because it once kept you safe — but now it’s blocking what God’s trying to give you.
We’ll talk about:
✨ Why trusting God feels so scary for trauma survivors
✨ How bad church experiences or absent father figures create self-protection patterns
✨ Why surrender isn’t weak — it’s the most powerful thing you can do
✨ How partnering with God in your healing transforms every area of your life — not just your love life
When you surrender to God, you’re not losing control — you’re gaining peace.
He’s not taking power away from you — He’s restoring it to you.
Scriptures referenced:
Proverbs 3:5-6 • 2 Corinthians 12:9 • Matthew 11:28
If you’ve been stuck between striving and surrender, this is your invitation to let God into the healing process and finally rest in His strength instead of your own.
NEXT STEPS:
Inside The Healing Room Waitlist and Rewritten, I help women break free from survival mode, rebuild their self-concept in Christ, and bring God into the parts of their love life they’ve been trying to fix alone.
Topics: self reliance, surrender to god, christian healing, trauma healing with jesus, faith and identity, identity in christ, christian podcast for women, letting god in, healing with god, nervous system healing, faith and trauma, christian transformation, jesus changed my life, trust god not yourself, no more breadcrumbs podcast, kim velez