The REALationship Method

From Tomboy to Center Stage, Finding Balance, & Dating app disasters with Acari


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What happens when musical talent meets motherhood and cultural heritage? Bay Area vocalist Acari joins us for a captivating conversation that weaves between her professional singing career, parenting journey, and creative aspirations.

From her days playing basketball as a self-described tomboy to commanding the stage at Mastro's Steakhouse, Acari shares the surprising path that led her to find her voice—literally and figuratively. After being discovered through Instagram, she now balances performing at an upscale venue with raising her two-year-old son, while simultaneously working on new music including an EP she describes as "genre fluid." Previously fronting the alternative rock band April Chase that once graced the Warped Tour stage, she reflects on how the Bay Area's economic realities shaped her musical journey.

The conversation takes a fascinating turn as Acari, born in Quezon City, shares spine-tingling stories of Filipino folklore and paranormal encounters that defy explanation—from the infamous "white lady" ghost to tree spirits that demand respect and tiny "duendes" with supernatural powers to cause illness. These cultural beliefs remain deeply intertwined with her worldview despite her contemporary life as a working musician.

We also dive into the evolution of confidence, as Acari reveals how she transformed from a shy performer into someone comfortable in her own skin. She shares candid thoughts on relationships, dating app disasters, and how persistence from her current partner ultimately won her heart despite not actively seeking romance.

Follow Acari on all social platforms @acarimusic to catch her upcoming releases, including a special track featuring lyrics in Tagalog. Her story is a testament to balancing artistic dreams with real-world responsibilities while staying connected to cultural roots.

• Born in Quezon City, Philippines, and now living in San Jose, California
• Currently recording new music including an EP with various genre influences
• Discovered for her Mastro's Steakhouse singing gig through Instagram
• Former member of alternative rock band April Chase that performed at Warped Tour
• Considering homeschooling options for her son due to concerns about the education system
• Recently collaborated with Ray Resurrection and preparing to release a song with Tagalog lyrics
• Shared fascinating Filipino folklore and paranormal experiences from growing up
• Once shy despite being a performer, now embraces confidence and caring less about others' perceptions
• Finding balance between motherhood, music career, and relationship

Find Acari on all social media platforms @acarimusic and look out for her upcoming releases including a new song featuring Tagalog lyrics.

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The REALationship MethodBy Chris Lomboy