From Where We Sit

What starts out as a casual laugh over wild weather, secret societies, and childhood memories of reading alien headlines off the supermarket tabloid racks takes an unexpected turn into deep existential waters. Diving into why the human mind is so hooked on explaining the unexplainable, the conversation bridges the gap between modern conspiracies and ancient faith, questioning what really happens to belief if God were to suddenly show up.

This week, we start with the algorithms feeding us endless negativity and find ourselves exploring something a little deeper: our fascination with conflict.From reality TV and viral confrontations to bullying, revenge and the satisfaction of seeing someone get what's coming to them, we get into the strange ways human nature and social media feed off each other.Along the way, GB shares personal experiences with bullying, Steve recounts a confrontation on the subway, and we question where the line falls between standing up for yourself and becoming the bully.Are the algorithms creating our appetite for drama, or are they just giving us more of what we've always wanted?Much love to you all.From Where We Sit 🎙️

In this episode, we're diving into all things traditions, the weird personal rituals we can't shake (like vacuuming before writing music or grabbing pre-show tacos), the childhood holiday memories we miss, and how our family traditions evolve as generations grow up.

From classic holiday specials and Halloween candy trades to Yosemite hikes and the horrors of BeanBoozled jelly beans, we’re talking about what it means to keep the good memories alive and make brand-new rituals along the way.

In this episode, we sit down for an open, honest conversation about a recent turn in my life: being diagnosed with emphysema at 65.

Receiving a chronic lung diagnosis brings plenty of uncertainty, but it also brings clarity. We talk about catching it early enough to take action and how I’m choosing to meet this diagnosis not with regret, but as a challenge to live better.

Rather than dwelling on past habits or wondering what might have been, the focus is squarely on what I can control today; dialing in my nutrition, committing to physical therapy, and staying active for as long as possible.

We also get candid about the realities of aging and lung capacity: how to make the most of active years and outdoor sports while adapting to natural physical limits as they come. While emphysema isn't curable, it can be met with intention, discipline, and a grounded, positive outlook.

Whether you or a loved one are navigating a new health diagnosis or you're just looking for an honest take on resilience, aging, and mindset, we hope this conversation resonates.

Much love to you all. From Where We Sit 🎙️

In our latest episode of From Where We Sit, we dive into the pseudo-paranoia of wondering if people are talking behind our backs and the real question of whether we actually care if they do.

We talk about reaching that point where the old cliché rings true: it really is none of our business what people say about us.

Still, there’s often a lingering emotional sting, especially when someone talks behind your back and then turns around, two-faced, with a smile right to your face.

We also touch on the role of true friends, the ones who will pull you aside and point out a personal blind spot so you can feel more comfortable in your own skin and give people less reason to talk.

Ultimately, we break down the different stages of figuring out whether knowing what people say behind our backs actually matters at all.

Much love to you all. From Where We Sit 🎙️

In this episode, we dive into the power of generous laughter and why humor is one of the best healing tools we have.

We talk about everything from de-escalating tense moments and knowing when to use comedic timing, to the old saying "dying of laughter." Honestly, if there’s any way to go, that’s the one.

At the end of the day, keeping your sense of humor alive might just be the secret to staying grateful, grounded, and genuinely positive through whatever life throws at you.

Are influencers modern-day digital visionaries or just slick snake-oil salesmen with ring lights?

In this episode, we unpack the wild world of the influencer economy, from the high-polish Mad Men era of advertising to today’s endless feed of algorithm chasers, content mills, and grassroots hustlers.

We cut through the BS to break down what makes us immediately smash the back button, why "influencer" became such a dirty word and how genuine creators are still out here doing the real work, building their tribe and keeping it authentic.

Love ’em or hate ’em, everyone’s selling something, so let’s talk about it.

Pull up a chair, tune in, and let us know where you sit!

When did talking to each other become so difficult?

We start with something simple: the automatic “I’m good” we give when someone asks how we’re doing. But the conversation quickly turns into something bigger.

Whether we’re losing the willingness, confidence or ability to genuinely connect with other people.

We talk about striking up conversations with strangers, why social skills need practice, what phones and social media have changed, and whether AI is starting to replace conversations we used to have with actual people.

Steve also opens up about feeling burned out by technology and experiencing real “device fatigue,” and why sometimes the answer might be as simple as putting the phone down and talking to somebody.

From Where We Sit is a conversation between two friends about life, culture and whatever else we’re trying to figure out along the way.Much love to you all. From Where We Sit 🎙️

What happens when willpower just isn't working?

GiBi opens up about his struggle with sugar, carbs, late-night eating and the extra weight that's beginning to affect everything from everyday life to surfing.

With GLP-1 medications seemingly everywhere, he's started wondering whether they could be the answer, or whether he's looking for a shortcut around a problem he needs to face himself.

That turns into a bigger conversation about cravings, discipline, addiction, changing habits and how difficult it can be to know when you need help versus when you simply need to start.

And before the conversation is over, GiBi does exactly that.

Much love to you all.

From Where We Sit 🎙️

Ever feel like you’ve lost your North Star, or maybe that you’re just overthinking the entire concept of "purpose"? In this episode, my friend and I sit down for an honest, unvarnished chat about what happens when you feel totally unmoored, why the pressure to find a single lifelong calling can actually paralyze us, and how to navigate the messy middle when you're feeling directionless. Grab a coffee, settle in, and let us know in the comments if this resonates with where you're at right now.