The Netflix documentary Death of a Pastor’s Wife tells the heartbreaking story of Mica Miller and raises disturbing questions about marriage, pastoral authority, spiritual manipulation, and the church’s responsibility to protect vulnerable people.

In this episode of F’TUP Life, Chris and Cindy confront the difficult realities behind the documentary from a Christian perspective. What happens when Scripture is twisted into a tool for control? Why do churches sometimes protect influential leaders instead of listening to those who have been wounded? And when does honoring spiritual authority become enabling abuse?

We also discuss church hurt, biblical submission, accountability, genuine repentance, and why leaving an unhealthy congregation is not the same as abandoning Christ. This is an honest, challenging conversation about exposing darkness, protecting the flock, and remembering that our ultimate loyalty belongs to Jesus—not a pastor, personality, building, or religious institution.

Viewer discretion advised: This episode discusses abuse, mental health, and suicide.

Listen in as Chris & Cindy tackle why people with good hearts, and even good intentions, still find themselves struggling in their marriage. Could it be your marriage is not actually bad, but rather neither of you are equipped properly. Let us help reframe your marriage from what you thought is was supposed to be to what God designed it to be!

We continue to push a covenant filled marriage but tackling those difficult topics, and conversations! Today it is that "I feel crazy" feeling, but it is more than likely a feeling of being disconnected. So your marriage is not crazy; you are not crazy for that matter, it is a disconnect. Tune in and listen as Chris & Cindy use their experience and faith to avoid being disconnected!!

We are back at it w/ fresh content on marriage coming straight to you! We are jumping into the 20 Silent Killers of marriage! Every marriage needs to stretch out a diagnosis before trying treatment! Can you relate.. We will ask questions in this opening episode, "Why is your marriage feeling hard", or "Why advice culture is a failing principle in our society". Being aware is not condemnation, it is an invitation to healing!

We are back in the Fruit of the Spirit... and the fruit in this episode is 'Joy'. So stop thinking you are just happy ,and discover how to purse 'Joy' ;;; regardless of your circumstances... especially in your marriage. Does your joy come from your spouse... listen in!

Chris & Cindy are back in a brand new series titled "If you are not living it, stop claiming it"! Lets dive into the Fruits of the Spirit with #1 being Love. Do you think Love is soft and how do you love in your marriage. Dust off your bible, we are in Galatians chp 5.

We are back and diving head first into scripture and the controversy around what that looks like in your relationship. Listen in as Chris & Cindy provide their take on love and hate.

Listen in as Chris and Cindy are back in the Love Languages approaching the end, in your relationship do you feel that Love is truly enough? Can Love conquer all...

Each Love Language has been covered, now what is yours.. and will your spouse agree? Listen in as Chris and Cindy offer insight on how to discover your primary Love Language. It may even be different than what you originally thought...

In the Final Love Language Chris & Cindy dive into Physical touch! To feel secure in your relationship, your marriage, can rest on those intimate, physical encounters... but what happens when insecurity has risen up..? Listen in and GET PHYSICAL