Fucking Vs. Making Love

In this encore of Speaking of Sex episode #178, we discuss the difference in the experience of “making love” vs. “fucking” – which of course is not a simple binary and yet resonates for so many of us. Sometimes, we want tender, emotional and deeply personal sex – “making love.” And sometimes, many of us crave bestial, intense sex or what we sometimes call “fucking.”

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Chris Rose (00:00):

Welcome to Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics I’m Chris from pleasuremechanics.com and on this podcast we have explicit and soulful conversations about all aspects of human sexuality. If you love the show and want to support what we are doing here at Pleasure Mechanics, please remember that we are a hundred percent community supported erotic education.

Chris Rose (00:26):

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Chris Rose (01:05):

It is actually a winter break for our daughter’s school, but it is a sick week for all of us. We have this cough and cold that you definitely do not want to hear on the microphones. So we are bringing you an Encore episode from our archives, because we are over 360 episodes deep into this conversation now. And while some of you have been with us for many years, week to week having this conversation, many, many of you are newer listeners. And while I encourage you to go to pleasuremechanics.com and check out our podcast archive, you can use the index to quickly find episodes around topics that most interest you, I also know that there is no possible way of listening to all of the episodes.

Chris Rose (01:56):

And so we want to highlight some of our classic episodes from time to time. And a sick week is a great week to do that. So here’s an episode that goes a few years back. It is all about how to fuck. How to fuck, fucking versus making love. And if that word fuck shocked you a little bit, just get prepared for this episode, because this is an explicit episode we are talking about, fucking. There’s sound effects and I think I use the word fu...