Long story {too short}. Crone gets disrespected by furry mother, who is coming to independent decision making, if I want this or that, I'm gonna have this or that,.the ish is in your mind (23yo?), However crone has the reasons elders in community don't have dogs, go to 4th of July, or "don't like" foods {usually some past memory | trauma | flashback #phobia #somaticsymptoms #avoidantbehaviors} and tries to explain but furry mother pulled the | rescue dog | card to sneak in one into the narrative {mind you, maiden had lost guiding grandma = push to adopt the protecting care of a "baby" -> furry mother soul journey phase*. A second dog AND a boyfriend were squeezed into the mix, without much agreement like "round table" adults and just passive avoidance into | now I'm the bad guy for wanting to "kick" them to curb | manipulation tactic. Family is family though, right? Ultimatums finally pulled. Here we are. Hyper responses, both sides. Dual signage, lots of messy capacities between mother and daughter. [({Long history of choosing not momma though when momma shoulda been first and foremost the focus, whether fair or not fair in universe})]. (I saw EmeRaLd DraGon's history in her eyes the day I met her and I said to a stranger that day - "get in my RV" - hopefully somebody out there thinks so too and helps out a stranger even though it doesn't make sense. *[if decided in their soul (i.e. "I'm not having kids! I'd rather do good for all souls, etc. I like Paul > Barnabas in the Bible kind of souls"), can it produce same perspective change that happens with Maidens turned Mothers {I did this maiden to mother empathetic jump because of necessity when NO parents were around to be the role for the pediatric patients I'd too commonly find under my loving care}