In this episode, I team up with my uncle and lifelong mentor, Crispin M., who coaches fatherhood through the dynamics of the tennis court. From perfecting your serve to mastering the match point, Crispin shows us how each play on the court mirrors moments in parenting—challenging us to stay agile, strategic, and always ready to learn alongside our kids.

In this conversation:

• Finding your serve: how crafting a pre-kickoff routine sets the tone for the whole day
• Rallying through the rough patches: strategies for staying present when parenting feels like a long set
• Reading your opponent—and your child: mastering the art of observation to anticipate needs before they arise
• The importance of “changeovers”: taking intentional breaks to reset, recharge, and reconnect as a family

"Never make provisions for failure.'

Chrispin brings the precision of a coach, the camaraderie of a doubles partner, and the wisdom of an uncle who’s seen it all. Whether you’re upmatch or downmatch, this episode serves up the plays you need to turn every point into an opportunity for growth, connection, and—above all—love.