Gaslighting is a term we often hear, but would you know if it was happening to you? Gaslighting is when an abuser manipulates you and tries to create doubt and confusion around something you know to be true. The abuser will deny what they said or did ever happened, which in turn makes you question yourself, your observations, and your sanity.

My guest today whom we’ll call Wende, was was gaslighted throughout her nine year relationship, so she never really knew if her partner cheated on her. I have my own point of view on that, but I’ll let you decide what you think was really going on.

It will amaze you to learn what Wende’s job is! It reminds me how trusting we can all become when love and lust drives our emotions.

Gaslighted By My Boyfriend For 9 Years

Affairs are prevalent but rarely talked about relationships. The podcast, Cheating: When Love Lies, is a deep dive into the complex emotions surrounding these secret unions.
Creator and host, Jillian Hamilton, delves into this taboo topic and asks the hard questions about affairs: how common are they, who's having them, and why? These questions illicit unexpected answers that reveal both men and women as people actively seeking something - validation, escape, understanding, vengeance, thrill, love, sex, and romance - outside of marriage or committed partnerships. Cheating: When Love Lies resists the condemnation of affairs as uniquely wrong or bad and instead considers their usefulness in learning as much about relationships as we learn about our ourselves.
On the podcast, Jillian Hamilton narrates short fictional stories about cheating based on true life events. The narration is followed by a roundtable discussion with everyday people who share their unique perspectives. Jillian also interviews cheaters and betrayed partners. These interviews are raw and real-and at times maddening or heartbreaking.
Listen now to Cheating: When Love Lies. Are you ready for the truth?


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What is micro cheating and are you doing it? Micro cheating describes behaviors that may be considered infidelity, but the boundary between micro cheating and a full blown affair isn’t clear.  My guest today—we’ll call her Connie, blames her micro cheating for bringing her marriage to the brink of divorce. But is how Connie’s husband behaves with the ladies behind her back even worse? Is there even such a thing as micro cheating? Or is it cheating just — cheating? Join me to find out if Connie’s micro cheating sparked  the demise of her marriage or if what her husband hasn’t yet revealed will be what years them apart. Be a guest on the show: Jillianhamiltonpodcast@gmail.com

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Are You Micro Cheating?

Your husband refuses to have sex with you. He won’t kiss you, touch you or show you any affection at all.

You feel neglected, abandoned and unwanted. No matter how much you beg and plead for his attention, you realize you can’t compete with that remote in his hand or his favorite recliner. This is what happened to my guest Maria. Does Maria have the right to find intimacy and pleasure wherever she can get it, or should she stay faithful to her marriage vows of monogamy and fidelity? What would you do? Be a guest on the show:

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If My Partner Withholds Intimacy, Does That Give Me License To Cheat?

For Memorial Day weekend we are featuring one our favorite episodes from the past. On this episode we have a panel discussion with two ladies whose marriages were scorched by infidelity along with their relationship coach Beth Miller. Beth's 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth's Soulify Wellness method, my two guests, Anne and Marie ( not their real names) explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership. Anne and Marie share intimate details of why they believe their husbands had affairs and why they find it so incredibly difficult to know how to move forward after betrayal. Beth facilitates our chat by offering professional insight into why my guests and so many betrayed women act as they do. Beth Miller Soulify Marriage Saver Program. www. soulifywellness.com

Cheating: When Love Lies Voted by Feedspot as one of the Top 90 PodcastOne Podcasts on the web. 

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Why Is It So Difficult To Leave My Cheating Husband?

This is a classic case of what would you do? What would you do if just two weeks before your wedding you found out your partner was cheating on you? Would you confide in a family member or tell a friend? Would you confront the cheating partner or let it go? Would you immediately cancel the wedding, or take time to consider your options?This nightmare of a predicament happened to my guest Greyson Ferguson. Greyson is a betrayed partner who went on to write very candidly about his experience. Find out what happens to this totally unsuspecting fiancé, when just days before his wedding he finds out his bride-to-be is having an affair. Be a guest on the show:Jillianhamiltonpodcast@gmail.com.

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MY BRIDE-TO-BE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR & OUR WEDDING IS IN TWO WEEKS

You're a husband. A good guy, a strong provider and a very present father. Despite that, your wife is not satisfied and has an affair with a man who has substance abuse issues, an unstable job history and troubles with the law. Guided by your faith, you manage to hold your marriage together and your wife ends the affair. But several years later you start to notice some uncomfortable changes in your wife’s behavior.  Should you simply trust that she is remaining faithful, or investigate these red flags? This episode's guest, Harrison Scott Key answers these questions in his book “How To Stay Married-The Most Insane Love Story Ever Told." Find out what happens when a devoted husband struggles with how to move forward after his wife is unfaithful, not once but twice. Be a guest on the show: jillianhamiltonpodcast@gmail.com. Find @cheatingwhenloveslies on IG for highlights from the shows.

Gaslighted By My Boyfriend For 9 Years

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