We are family. We know that. We live by that. What is the nature of this togetherness? Relationship, and the burning desire to remain close to your Beloved. The more you know about your other, the more you understand them and the closer you will feel. Above all, remaining as consistently faithful to them will cement the relationship - another motif consistently found in Pesach's Megilla of Shir Hashirim. Amalek understood this all too well, when they tried to shatter the chain of our Mesora, our consistency - and still do it today - Midor Dor - in every generation - how apposite for Pesach!

But you need to be consistent in the right things! If you lovingly buy your wife lillies every Friday for ten years...but she is allergic to them (or just doesn't like them!), you've missed the point...

Emerson famously said: 

'A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines.' 

Real consistency will breed a real hero...hero Israel - Hashem is our G-d