Gen X Juggler Podcast

Gen X Juggler Podcast

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Gen X Juggler Podcast episodes

  • GXJ Replay: No Contact: Grieving the Relationship without Losing Hope, with Candi Morris

    Today on the Gen X Juggler podcast, Deb interviews Candi Morris, creator of the Estranged and Rearranged podcast, about supporting parents whose adult children go no contact.

    Candi shares her personal estrangement from her 35-year-old son since July 2022, the loss of contact with her granddaughter, and the earlier death of an adult daughter, describing estrangement as “ambiguous grief.”

    She discusses why estrangement feels more prevalent, citing social media algorithms, cultural focus on the self, media coverage, and a reported 38% of adults estranged from a family member. They address impacts on grandchildren and family legacy, missing grace and forgiveness, links to divorce, tragedy, therapy advice, and spouse/partner influence.

    Candi urges parents to hold hope for reconciliation while continuing to live, improve themselves, and seek support via estrangedandrearranged.com and free weekly Zoom groups.

     

    00:00 No Contact Rising

    00:46 Meet Candi Morris

    02:10 Her Estrangement Story

    03:54 From TikTok to Podcast

    08:37 Ambiguous Grief Explained

    09:03 Why Estrangement Is Trending

    14:53 Legacy and Grandkids

    20:02 Grace and Growth

    23:05 Trauma Divorce and Therapy

    29:28 Building Resilience Again

    33:48 Spouse Influence and Alienation

    37:22 Hope Without Waiting

    40:44 Where to Find Support

    41:31 Final Encouragement

    Links to Candi Morris:

    estrangedandrearranged.com

    https://www.instagram.com/estrangedandrearranged?igsh=a3puenZiYWh4YWdu

    https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C1ARkRgfr/?

     

    **For speaking and event inquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

     

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

    43 min
  • GXJ Replay: How to Have a Magnificent Menopause with Alison Bladh

    This week, Deb enjoys an enlightening conversation with Alison Bladh. They discuss menopause myths and how to utilize nutrition and movement to balance our hormones and and regain our sparkle.✨

    Alison Bladh is an award-winning registered Nutritional Therapist and Beauty Therapist. With over 30 years of experience in the health and wellness industry, Alison has specialized globally in women's health during midlife, menopause, and beyond. She now runs her own online clinic, helping women worldwide manage the negative symptoms of menopause through tailored online programs, including her popular 21-Day Reboot and Reset Program, as well as one-to-one consultations.

    Alison's new book, Have a Magnificent Menopause: A straightforward guide to looking good and feeling great, gives us the tools to do just that.

    00:00 Podcast Welcome
    00:22 Meet Alison Bladh
    01:15 Her Wellness Journey
    04:39 What Is Menopause
    09:51 HRT Reality Check
    12:27 Nutrition Basics
    17:25 Midlife Weight Gain
    21:47 New Menopause Book
    24:43 Simple Steps Today
    27:17 Menopause Myths
    31:02 Movement and Wrap Up
     

    You can find it on Amazon by clicking the link below.

    https://a.co/d/ivyu5qk

    To learn more about Alison Bladh's coaching programs and online resources,

    go to https://www.alisonbladh.com/resources

    Find Alison Bladh on social media:

    https://www.facebook.com/alisonbladhnutrition

    https://www.tiktok.com/@UCsb_TeLX6IU_KLP0OKg6iIw

    https://www.instagram.com/alisonbladh/?hl=en

    https://www.youtube.com/@UCsb_TeLX6IU_KLP0OKg6iIw

    https://twitter.com/pinktearoom

    https://www.pinterest.se/AlisonBladhNutrition/_created/

     
    **For speaking and event inquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]
     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

     

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

    34 min
  • GXJ Replay: Mindful Parenting and the Power of Self-Regulation with Jacintha Field
    This week on the Gen X Juggler podcast, Deb welcomes Jacintha Field, a family and child counselor, art therapist, and founder of Happy Souls Kids. They dive into the importance of teaching children and grandchildren how to self-regulate their emotions through various tools and techniques.
     
    Jacintha shares her journey from media and PR to becoming a counselor, inspired by her own challenges as a mother during the COVID-19 pandemic. The conversation covers practical steps to help children process their big emotions, the role of technology in self-regulation, and the significance of creating a safe space for open communication. With insights on mindful parenting and the importance of boundaries, this episode provides valuable advice for parents and caregivers looking to support their children's emotional well-being.
     
    00:00 Introduction: Reflecting on Gen X Upbringing
    01:19 Guest Introduction: Jacintha Field
    01:49 Jacintha's Journey: From Media to Mental Health
    02:49 Personal Challenges and Discoveries
    04:06 Developing Tools for Emotional Regulation
    05:02 The Role of Play in Therapy
    06:45 Incorporating Technology and Influences
    12:47 Understanding Self-Regulation
    21:39 Teaching Kids to Manage Anxiety
    22:50 Starting Conversations with Your Children
    24:43 Mindful Parenting Explained
    31:33 Encouraging Independence in Children
    36:19 Creating a Safe Space for Honest Communication
    40:21 Generational Learning and Healing
    41:41 Resources and Final Thoughts
     
    Jacintha Field Links:

    www.happysoulskids.com

    https://www.tiktok.com/@jacinthafield?_t=ZP-90mZAdiLU1m&_r=1

    https://www.tiktok.com/@happysoulskids?_t=ZP-90mZ3x1VOmc&_r=1

    https://www.instagram.com/jacinthafield?igsh=aXlndnYwYXkybWZk

    https://www.instagram.com/happysoulskids?igsh=cHc5dGp3ejMydDVu

     

    **For speaking and event enquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

     

    44 min
  • GXJ Replay: Empowering Moms through Advocacy and Hope with Jenn Robb

    In this episode of the Gen X Juggler podcast, Deb welcomes nurse practitioner, author, and coach Jenn Robb. Jenn shares the poignant journey she and her daughter Chloe underwent during Chloe's battle with mental health issues, including depression and self-harm.

    Highlighting the importance of finding the right professional help and the transformative power of faith and perseverance, Jenn discusses her book, Warrior Mom Rising, and offers valuable advice for other parents facing similar challenges. The conversation delves into the emotional struggles, the necessity of advocacy, and the power of community and self-care.

    Jenn's commitment to turning her pain into purpose by helping other moms is both inspiring and practical, making this a must-listen episode for anyone seeking strength and hope in difficult times.

    00:00 Introduction to Jenn Robb and Her Story

    00:48 Jenn Robb's Background and Family Life

    01:55 Chloe's Struggles Begin

    03:57 The Turning Point: Recognizing the Severity

    05:59 Seeking Professional Help

    09:42 The Search for the Right Counselor 1

    2:07 Discovering the Root Cause

    13:10 Finding the Right Help and Moving Forward

    15:17 The Importance of Self-Care for Moms

    16:39 Family Bonding and Unique Experiences

    17:25 The Beauty of Glassblowing

    18:00 A Mother's Reflection on Purpose and Pain

    19:11 Chloe's Struggle and a Mother's Instinct

    22:26 A Moment of Surrender

    24:02 Advocating for Moms and Mental Health

    29:50 The Journey to Coaching and Empowerment

    34:02 Final Thoughts and Resources

    Jenn Robb's Links:

    Amazon Link to Jenn Robb's book, Warrior Mom Rising: a.co/d/0kZyC57

    warriormomcoach.net

    https://www.instagram.com/warriormom_jennrobb?igsh=bWVtejAxd2FyeXkw

    For speaking and event inquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]
     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

     

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

    36 min
  • GXJ Replay: Who Knew Menopause Came with Bonus Levels?! Weird Symptoms and Cool Solutions with Dr. Betsy Greenleaf
    In this episode of the Gen X Juggler Podcast, Deb is joined by Dr. Betsy Greenleaf, the first woman in the U.S. to be board certified in urogynecology.
     
    They discuss the unexpected symptoms of menopause, the importance of pelvic floor health, and different treatment options including hormonal and non-hormonal therapies.
     
    Dr. Betsy emphasizes the importance of gut health and stress management for overall wellness. From the interplay of microbiomes to exploring advanced therapies like vaginal lasers, this episode offers a comprehensive guide for midlife women navigating the complexities of menopause.
     
    00:00 Meet Dr Betsy Greenleaf
    01:20 Why Menopause Talk Matters
    01:57 Sorting Menopause Marketing
    03:27 Cougar Puberty Surprises
    05:51 Vaginal Changes Explained
    09:17 Hormone Treatment Options
    10:30 Lasers And New Tech
    13:47 At Home Regeneration Tools
    15:01 Budget Timing And Maintenance
    17:00 UTIs And Gut Health
    23:50 Functional Medicine Mindset
    27:05 Microbiome Weight Link
    28:12 Microbiome Sharing Myth
    29:26 Birth Genetics And Seeding
    30:14 Twin Mice Microbiome Swap
    31:39 Diversity Stress Lifestyle
    33:36 Midlife Stress Sandwich
    35:33 Box Breathing Reset
    38:10 Kindness Self Care Boundaries
    43:29 Cholesterol Cortisol Tradeoff
    46:07 Resources Discounts Wrap
     
    **Contact Deb for speaking engagements at [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

    Links to Dr. Betsy Greenleaf:

    https://pauseinstitute.com

    https://pelvicfloorstore.com

    https://www.instagram.com/drbetsygreenleaf?igsh=d3AyZjZyZTIyNzI4

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

     

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

    51 min
  • The Power of Data-Driven, Intentional Dating in Midlife with Bern Mendez

    In this insightful episode of the Gen X Juggler Podcast, host Deb engages in a deep conversation with Bern Mendez, a neuroscience-based dating and relationship coach with over 14 years of experience. Specializing in helping high-achieving women over 40 attract emotionally available partners, Bern shares his unique approach that blends neuroscience, emotional attunement, and real-world strategy. Topics include the role of the nervous system in partner selection, the importance of challenging long-held non-negotiables, and practical tips for navigating modern dating. Bern also recounts a touching personal story about the impact of losing his father, which deepened his mission to help others create meaningful connections. This episode is packed with actionable advice and will inspire you to approach dating with intentionality and self-awareness.

    00:00 Introduction to the Episode

    00:57 Meet Bern Mendez: The Neuroscience-Based Dating Coach

    03:03 The Importance of Out-of-the-Box Solutions in Dating

    03:36 Understanding the Challenges of Modern Dating

    08:59 The Role of the Nervous System in Relationships

    22:05 Navigating Physical Intimacy and Emotional Attachment

    26:07 Navigating the Early Stages of Dating

    26:35 The Importance of Asking Questions

    27:35 Setting Boundaries and Safety Protocols

    28:59 Intentional Dating and Video Calls

    30:36 Recognizing Red Flags and True Connections

    35:01 The Value of Emotional Connection

    39:10 Tools and Resources for Better Relationships

    44:52 A Personal Story of Connection and Loss

    Bern Mendez Links:

    bernmendez.com

    attractoinblindspot.com

    www.youtube.com/ ⁨@BernMendez⁩ 

    https://www.tiktok.com/@bernmendez?_t=ZP-8zoqH1zGQYB&_r=1

    **For speaking and event enquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

     

    50 min
  • Authenticity Changes Your Impact, with David Ask

    🎙️ Meet David Ask — Entrepreneur, Inventor & Identity Coach What does it mean to truly know who you are before chasing what you do? In this episode, we sit down with David Ask, often called the most encouraging person on earth.

    From launching his invention into 3,700+ retail stores to guiding high-performing leaders through identity-first transformation, David helps people unlock the grit, purpose, and hidden riches already inside them.

    🔑 In this conversation, you’ll learn:

    • How David’s journey as an entrepreneur shaped his coaching philosophy

    • The importance of grit and perseverance in business & life

    • How being steadfast in our own identities builds resilience and grit

    • How understanding our core values and living in authenticity can impact our      children.

    Whether you’re an entrepreneur, leader, or someone seeking deeper purpose, this episode will lift your spirit and sharpen your vision.

    Oh—and did I mention? David Ask can sing like Andrea Bocelli. 🎶 Experience David Ask's "Open Arms" for yourself:

    https://youtu.be/vQ_ub2jU0_g?si=UI6oWem_Pl0Lh7IE

    David Ask's Links:

    https://www.davidaskmusic.com/

    https://www.truenorthculture.org/team

    StatGuardPlus.com

    **For speaking and event enquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     
    StatGuardPlus
    Go to: https://StatGuardPlus.com

    Use promo code: GenX10 to get 10% off

    Be sure to join Deb for “Talk-O Bout it Tuesday,” a weekly live session on the Gen X Juggler Podcast Facebook page where we talk about this week's episode, connect, and have a fun conversation, Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Central Time.

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

     

    47 min
  • No Contact: Grieving the Relationship without Losing Hope, with Candi Morris

    Today on the Gen X Juggler podcast, Deb interviews Candi Morris, creator of the Estranged and Rearranged podcast, about supporting parents whose adult children go no contact.

    Candi shares her personal estrangement from her 35-year-old son since July 2022, the loss of contact with her granddaughter, and the earlier death of an adult daughter, describing estrangement as “ambiguous grief.”

    She discusses why estrangement feels more prevalent, citing social media algorithms, cultural focus on the self, media coverage, and a reported 38% of adults estranged from a family member. They address impacts on grandchildren and family legacy, missing grace and forgiveness, links to divorce, tragedy, therapy advice, and spouse/partner influence.

    Candi urges parents to hold hope for reconciliation while continuing to live, improve themselves, and seek support via estrangedandrearranged.com and free weekly Zoom groups.

     

    00:00 No Contact Rising

    00:46 Meet Candi Morris

    02:10 Her Estrangement Story

    03:54 From TikTok to Podcast

    08:37 Ambiguous Grief Explained

    09:03 Why Estrangement Is Trending

    14:53 Legacy and Grandkids

    20:02 Grace and Growth

    23:05 Trauma Divorce and Therapy

    29:28 Building Resilience Again

    33:48 Spouse Influence and Alienation

    37:22 Hope Without Waiting

    40:44 Where to Find Support

    41:31 Final Encouragement

    Links to Candi Morris:

    estrangedandrearranged.com

    https://www.instagram.com/estrangedandrearranged?igsh=a3puenZiYWh4YWdu

    https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1C1ARkRgfr/?

     

    For speaking and event inquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

     

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

    43 min
  • GXJ Replay: When Faith Leaders Burn Out: Identity, Expectations & Healing in the Wilderness, with Dustin Kleinschmidt
    Today on the Gen X Juggler podcast, Deb welcomes Dustin Kleinschmidt, an author, coach, and former pastor with over 25 years of ministry experience and the author of The Wilderness Way: Finding Freedom in Life’s Fractures.
     
    Dustin shares his unconventional path into ministry and how returning to a Texas church after a senior pastor’s affair and COVID-era turmoil led to years of crisis leadership, resignation, and a severe spiral into depression and anxiety.
     
    He describes how God challenged him to examine his unmet expectations behind the disappointment and reframed this season in the “wilderness” between rescue and the promised land, where beauty and brokenness coexist and God is present.
     
    They discuss ministry’s performance pressures, identity and significance, setting values and boundaries, and Dustin’s coaching approach focused on spiritual, emotional, relational, and organizational health, plus his book, workbook, and upcoming music release.
     
    00:00 Burnout And Calling
    00:59 Meet Dustin Kleinschmidt
    01:38 Gen X Midlife Weight
    02:33 Ministry Origin Story
    06:37 From Music To Pastor
    10:17 Church Crisis And Collapse
    11:58 Resignation And Spiral
    14:29 Disappointment Expectations
    18:16 Wilderness Way Framework
    23:32 Tenderness Through Suffering
    25:58 Leader Pressure And Masks
    28:12 Performing For Expectations
    29:50 Feeling Far From God
    30:54 The Thing Underneath
    31:54 Significance And Identity
    36:12 Idols And True Rest
    38:24 Burnout In Creative Work
    41:03 Redefining Values And Boundaries
    43:33 Coaching Approach Explained
    46:21 Book Music And Where To Find
    48:47 Closing Reflections And Thanks
     
    Links to Dustin Kleinschmidt:
    www.dustinkleinschmidt.com
     
    https://www.instagram.com/dustinkschmidt?igsh=MW9lMzQyMHZlcnhjbA==
     
    https://www.instagram.com/walkingthewildernessway?igsh=MXV0cnl4b3dvMXl4bA==
     
    https://www.facebook.com/share/18Xwj2Qn9G/?mibextid=wwXIfr
     
    Find Dustin's book, The Wilderness Way: Finding Freedom in Life's Fractures, at:
    https://a.co/d/00eFUMq7
     
    And pick up the accompanying workbook as well at:
    https://a.co/d/0fhV3pB1
     
     
     
     
    **For speaking and event enquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     
    StatGuardPlus
    Go to: https://StatGuardPlus.com

    Use promo code: GenX10 to get 10% off

    Be sure to join Deb for “Talk-O Bout it Tuesday,” a weekly live session on the Gen X Juggler Podcast Facebook page where we talk about this week's episode, connect, and have a fun conversation, Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. Central Time.

    Links to Gen X Juggler:

    https://youtube.com/@genxjuggler?si=GdErb9FBtfInJMTC

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

    https://www.facebook.com/share/1CLEHVGu9H/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    https://www.instagram.com/gen_x_juggler?igsh=MXRvb3hyZDA4b3MzMQ==

    https://www.tiktok.com/@debfoster88?_t=ZP-8yp0VGqHois&_r=1

    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

     

    51 min
  • 64. The Baggage We Carry: Friendship, Faith, and Letting Go of What Was with Debbie Avinger
    Deb returns to the Gen X Juggler podcast’s “back to basics” roots and welcomes lifelong friend Debbie Avinger, who previously appeared in the early audio-only days.
     
    They reflect on 42+ years of friendship, midlife pressures, parenting stages, and how difficult seasons can pile up. Their conversation centers on “baggage”—personal burdens and the unseen burdens others carry—and how to respond without regret by leaning on God and community.
     
    They discuss Christ-centered tools such as breath prayers using scripture, the nervous system’s tendency to replay “what was,” and the challenge of self-isolation, pride, and shame when struggling. Debbie shares a short piece, “The River of Was,” about giving burdens and even “crowns” to God, who “was, is, and is to come,” emphasizing daily mercy and taking life one day at a time.
     
    00:00 Back to Basics
    00:46 Meet Debbie Avinger
    02:46 Lifelong Friendship
    04:37 Kids and Teaching
    06:47 Hard Seasons Ahead
    08:01 Baggage and Jesus
    11:02 Breath Prayer Practice
    16:49 Prompted to Reach Out
    24:19 Isolation and Pride
    32:49 River of Was
    38:45 Living in the Is
    42:31 Closing Thoughts
     
    Debbie Avinger's son has a YouTube Channel!
    Find it on Youtube @Mr.Shmeeshmoe
     
    For speaking and event inquiries, please contact Deb at: [email protected]

     

    **Want to be a guest on Gen X Juggler Podcast? Send Deb Foster a message      on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/genxjuggler

     

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    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gen-x-juggler-podcast/id1792338965

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    **THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED PROFESSIONAL ADVICE IN ANY FIELD INCLUDING LEGAL, MEDICAL, FINANCIAL OR MENTAL HEALTH. THE VIEWS EXPRESSED BY GUESTS ON THIS PODCAST ARE THEIR OWN AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE VIEWS OF THE HOST AND/OR PRODUCERS.**

    46 min

About Gen X Juggler Podcast

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Yesterday, we were the fun-loving feral kids of the 80’s, and today we’re grownup Gen Xers juggling the many joys and challenges of midlife. That happened fast! This podcast covers topics that matter most to us as we navigate the uncharted waters of midlife and all that comes with it. We’ll reminisce about the good old days and also share stories and valuable conversations that help us make the most of the here and now.