Ozzy and Tuck chat with philosopher Talia Mae Bettcher (she/her). Topics include:

• Creating a theory of trans oppression beyond the “wrong body” and “beyond the binary” accounts 
• How clothing can be part of an abusive system of forced disclosure 
• “Let’s meditate on genitalia if we can for a moment”
• Why are there so many terfs in philosophy?? 
• Plus: Phoria, apparitionals, moral sex, and other fun new vocab 

This Week in Gender: Updates on Trans Day of Having a Nice Snack community events! Apply for funding at bit.ly/tdos2025 or donate at @Tuck-Woodstock & PayPal.me/TWoodstock.

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today’s messages were from Queer Third Space and Voces Language Club.

Find Talia’s work here and here. Beyond Personhood is available from University of Minnesota Press.

Gender Ordeal is coming to Chicago and Minneapolis! Grab your tickets quickly at genderpodcast.com/live.

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Tuck explains this year’s Trans Day of Snack celebrations — which includes the opportunity to organize a Gender Reveal-funded gathering! — before chatting with Seattle Trans Joy’s Jerika Che (they/them). Topics include:

• How do I organize a Trans Day of Snack event in my area?
• How do I choose a location?
• How can I spread the word?
• What safety measures might be helpful?
• Plus: Trans vegan donuts, potlucks, and emotional support cis?

For more organizing tips and stories, listen to last year’s episode with Jerika. Learn more about Trans Day of Snack via these PopSugar and Vice articles. (We also chatted with TDOS co-founder Lilith on Gender Conceal.)

Organizing your own Trans Day of Snack event? Apply for a small grant at bit.ly/tdos2025. (Folks can send donations to @Tuck-Woodstock or PayPal.me/TWoodstock)

CHICAGO! Gender Ordeal is coming to you! Tickets on sale now, please come hang out! 

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Tuck chats with Palestinian activist Yaffa (they/she) about their experiences with last year's student encampments, their belief in collectivism, and their journey to mononymity. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear what Yaffa learned about gender from Palestinian elders, among other topics. 

Find Yaffa @yaffasutopia across platforms, and at themasgd.org and merajpublishing.com.

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Tuck and Ozzy chat with writer Vera Blossom (she/her). Topics include:

• Being the hottest girlie at the men-only bathhouse
• Writing a memoir-grimoire complete with magic spells
• What did estrogen teach Vera about the life cycle of pigeons???
• Is Shrek the ideal man? (And are straight roommates queer-coded?)
• Plus: Las Vegas, Pokemon boarding school online role-play, and the ghost of the gay guy who previously owned Vera’s bread machine 

This Week in Gender: We revisit past interviews with Dean Spade and Chase Strangio and recommend reading “literally what can we do.”

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today’s messages were from et al. Scholars and Max Burns UX.

Find Vera @cuteflesh and at howtofucklikeagirl.com. How to Fuck Like a Girl is available now at bookshop.org. 

We’re on tour this week! Any tickets left are at genderpodcast.com/live. 

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Tuck, Mattie (she/they) and Calvin (he/him) attempt to answer two questions: 

1. What is Gender Ordeal?
2. Why are they doing it?

Along the way, we also reveal the amount of time that Tuck can be emotionally available on a plane, and how many years you have to stay married before you earn a watch. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon for discussions of gender-swapped holes, erotic landlord chocolate, a new definition of bi vs gay, the world's largest ball of sisal twine, furry-owned pants stores, Mattie’s secret tour talent, puppy girl representation, and what gay guys are doing over there. 

Find us on tour! We're in DC THIS FRIDAY and on the west coast Feb 10-12. Come have fun for an hour why not?

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We’re celebrating Gender Reveal’s seventh anniversary by journeying into a little galaxy of gender futures. 

Join our Patreon to access Gender Conceal and discover even more futures of gender. Find episode transcripts at genderpodcast.com.

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Tuck chats with Basketdolls founder Devin Myers (she/her). Topics include:

• Infusing queer nightlife vibes into a streetball tournament
• Creating a sixth official job for trans women!?
• Working at the "Gay Cracker Barrel” in Tallahassee
• “If I see a need for something that doesn’t exist, I don’t care what it takes, I’m going to make it.”
• Plus: #1 Dad Dwayne Wade, the New York Liberty, and various Wallaces

This Week in Gender: We revisit Past Futures of Gender in a special segment

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today’s message was from @emkaisart. 

Find Basketdolls @basketdolls, @trand1streetball, and linktr.ee/Basketdolls; learn more via this beautiful profile in SELF.

Tickets for our Gender Ordeal live shows in DC, San Francisco, Portland and Seattle are on sale now!

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Tuck chats with comedian Sunny Zimmerman (they/them) about LBJ: the Play, LBJ-inspired gender, moral ambiguity in politics, and the value of slapping around yr Conventionally Hot Cis Guy Friend onstage :) 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of Oh, Mary!, Ronan Farrow’s pop single, The Power Broker, the Ship of Theseus, and a certain president’s huge hog :) :) 

Find Sunny at sunnyzimmerman.com and at @zimmer_down_ on Instagram and TikTok.

Come see us on tour in Washington DC, San Francisco, Portland(!!!!!) and Seattle! Tickets on sale now (and some are selling out just a heads up)!

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Tuck & Ozzy catch up with organizer and author Dean Spade (he/him). Topics include: 

• Tools for moving through jealousy, handling in-group conflict, and supporting someone during a breakup
• Why symbolic arrests aren’t currently an effective political strategy 
• Why mutual aid is most important when we feel scared, avoidant or isolated
• Plus: “Better” titles for Dean’s book, promiscuous friendship, and what you should do about that gender marker on your ID… 

This Week in Gender: we peek into the 2024 Gender Census results 

Submit a piece of Theymail: Today’s messages were from Fiona Palmer and The Dugout: a Black anarchist podcast.

Tickets for our Gender Ordeal live shows in DC, San Francisco, and Seattle are on sale now (and going fast)!

Find Dean at deanspade.net and linktr.ee/deanspade. Preorder Love in a Fucked-Up World via Bluestockings for 15% off (with code F*CKED<3), or listen to an hour of the audiobook for free. Dean’s book tour dates are listed here.

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Tuck and Ozzy tackle advice questions about coming out (or not), accessing medical transition in This Political Moment, and dating for the very first time. 

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of business casual tits, getting back into domming, being normal around other trans people, brainstorming nonbinary tattoos, coming out at work, going on T, and of course, choosing one person to eat. (Who would you eat?)

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Come see us on tour by the way!!!!! Philly show is TOMORROW.