So many times we don't hesitate to invest in our kids, loved ones, ect. But somehow when it comes to thw self we don't have a big problem self denying. I give the take that we don't use no when answering ourself in spending money for any reason. We use let's revisit this in 30 days, 60 days because inner lovely lady, or awesome dude (for men) I want you delighted and joy expanded. However, right now is a great challenge but you will get this great wish. This is reframing a no to give me time and then I'll give to you (speaking to the self) Let me know how this sits with you. Thanks starbrights 🌟