Abraham prioritised spiritual faithfulness in seeking a wife for Isaac. Why is Abraham so determined that Isaac not marry a Canaanite woman? What spiritual concerns are driving this? How does that challenge the priorities we (or our culture) often emphasise in relationships? 

What does it look like for you to act faithfully (like Abraham) while leaving the results in God’s hands? How does the servant balance responsibility and trust when he asks, “What if the woman is unwilling?” How would you evaluate your prayer life in light of the servant’s example—especially his dependence on God and alignment with His promises? 

The servant looked for godly character, not just outward attractiveness. What does this teach us about the important qualities to look for in a partner or even in friendships? Why is this so important? What does this mean for parents and friends of someone considering dating and marriage? What would be a good way to discern a person’s character before a relationship starts? 

How does Rebekah’s response demonstrate the qualities of a godly person? Can you think of ways we can cultivate those same qualities (humility, generosity, willingness to serve) in our own lives? 

What is the significance of the servant immediately worshipping after God answers his prayer? What practices could help you grow in gratitude and in recognising God’s work? 

The passage highlights passing faith to the next generation. What intentional steps are you taking (or could you take) to strengthen the faith of others? 

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