I've had MS. Manifest as my life coach for a year now. I've had Mz.selfluv as a personal life coach. Yes, there is a pay factor to her , to both of them but when you attach a dollar amount to your goals, you'll more likely to go harder toward them. Instead of worrying about what someone else is doing in regards to caring about me, loving, other men that is. I've gained confidence from these group coachings I've received. You do it too please! What ever "going for it" is for you , please, invest in yourself, pay for said program to better yourself.