Ever find yourself knee-deep in a Wikipedia spiral about haunted castles in Scotland when you were supposed to be finishing that work thing? 

Going down a rabbit hole can leave you shaming yourself for being unfocused and lazy. But what if rabbit holes weren’t the enemy? What if you could ditch the shame, tame your tangents, and use them as fuel? 

On this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, get your shit together coach and host Sarah Bowser shares her hot take that tangents are actually secret paths to productivity. She discusses why rabbit holes happen, how they can fuel creativity and insight, and when to recognize whether a rabbit hole is helping or just helping you procrastinate.

For years, Sarah beat herself up over distractions and non-linear thinking, until she realized that reframing her so-called “chaos” not only helped her get her shit together but also made her brain feel less broken and more powerful.

Thanks for listening! You can find complete show notes for this episode on the podcast website:  getittogetherweirdo.com. While you’re there, sign up for weekly coworking on Mondays and hop on the email list to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits Sarah shares.

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

What if the key to actually following through on your goals wasn’t about more willpower or better time management, but about who you do it with? Collaboration can turn your chaotic, nerdy energy into focused progress. But where do you even find the people who will cheer you on without judgment?

In this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, host and get your shit together coach Sarah Bowser shares the power of finding your people when it comes to getting your shit together. She covers why collaboration can transform your motivation, how to find people who align with your values, and what steps you can take to nurture those connections so they help you move forward instead of holding you back.

Sarah’s own life got more organized (and a lot more fun) when she started meeting with a “goal partner” and showing up for weekly coworking sessions. The sense of belonging she found was a game-changer for getting her shit together without burning out. If that sounds enticing, then this episode is for you!

Thanks for listening! You can find complete show notes for this episode on the podcast website:  getittogetherweirdo.com. While you’re there, sign up for weekly coworking on Mondays and hop on the email list to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits Sarah shares.

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

Are you constantly running around like a hamster on a wheel, checking off your to-do lists, but still feeling hollow? Maybe it’s because there’s not a whole lot of intention behind your productivity. 

On this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, host and get your shit together coach Sarah Bowser dives into reclaiming your time for what actually matters to you. She discusses how meaningful it is to finally set your own priorities, how to figure out what matters to you, and why embracing experimentation (and ditching the guilt) is essential to making sustainable changes. And (spoiler alert) you don’t have to do any of this alone. 

Whether you’re neurodivergent, feeling overwhelmed, or just nerdy and distracted, this episode is your permission slip to start spending more of your time on all the weird and wonderful shit that lights you up. 

Thanks for listening! You can find complete show notes for this episode and browse previous episodes at getittogetherweirdo.com. While you’re there, hop on the email list to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits Sarah shares. 

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

Are you tired of productivity systems that seem built for someone else’s brain? Ever feel like a failure when yet another fancy planner ends up buried under a pile of unopened mail? 

Maybe you’re not the problem. 

In this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, get your shit together coach and host Sarah Bowser tackles the messy reality of productivity for real, imperfect humans, especially those with neurodivergent or easily distracted minds. Sarah covers why traditional productivity systems fall short, how to align your To Dos with your core values, and what it really means to embrace your wonderfully weird imperfection and still make meaningful progress. 

If you're craving a more human, purpose-driven approach to time management, this episode's for you.

Want to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits that Sarah shares? Go to thatweirdnerdymom.com to hop on her email list, or join her for weekly coworking on Mondays.

What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• Why most planners, task apps, and other productivity systems weren’t designed for your wonderfully weird brain 
• How to identify your core values and use them to guide your productivity choices 
• What perfectionism has to do with your burnout and how to break free from it 
• Why you should just ditch tasks that make your stomach knot up 
• How celebrating small wins can rewire your brain for progress over pressure 
• Why experimenting is the key to finding systems that actually work for your unique self 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode: 
“Those picture-perfect planners weren’t made for your brain. They were made for an imaginary productivity unicorn.” 

“You're allowed to prioritize your real life.” 

“Maybe you've failed at a hundred different planners and systems before. Cool! That just means you have research data.” 

“You don't need a 5:00 AM routine with 17 steps. You need space to find what makes sense for your life.” 

“Perfection is overrated. Progress is magical. And your weird, wonderful way of doing things? That’s your superpower.” 

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

Ever feel like your brain is the ball in a pinball machine, bouncing between rabbit holes and to-do lists with no real focus? 

Same. 

In this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, get-your-shit-together coach and host Sarah Bowser shares her journey from chaos to clarity. It’s a personal look at how she manages to keep moving forward even when life feels like a whirlwind of weird, nerdy chaos. She discusses what can trigger overwhelm, why aligning your actions with your values matters, and how experimenting with your quirks can lead to better time management. 

Whether you're overcommitted, stuck in perfectionist loops, or just craving more structure that works for your brain, you don’t have to go it alone—and you are not broken. 

Want to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits that Sarah shares? Go to thatweirdnerdymom.com to hop on her email list, or join her for weekly coworking on Mondays. 

What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• What hidden patterns might be contributing to your overwhelm 
  
  
• Why understanding your core values helps you set better boundaries 
  
  
• How self-compassion can shift your relationship with productivity 
  
  
• How experimenting with tools, routines, and rest can lead to surprising breakthroughs 
  
  
• How to embrace your weird, nerdy quirks as the strengths they actually are 
  
  
• Why building (or joining) a supportive community is key to staying grounded 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode: 

“Here I am helping you get your shit together... when most days I still feel like a squirrel on about eight shots of espresso.”

“The problem wasn’t me or my abilities—it was the unrealistic expectations I was putting on myself.”

“Your quirks aren’t flaws. They’re part of what makes you amazing.”

“Perfectionism is a trap. It’s unattainable and chasing it only leads to burnout.”

“It’s not about getting it perfect—it’s about finding what works for you and giving yourself permission to grow at your own pace.”

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

Do you ever feel like you’re forcing yourself to follow a system that just doesn’t work for your brain? Have you ever blamed yourself for not being able to stick to some planner or productivity method that everyone else swore by? 

What if the problem isn’t you—but the system? 

On this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, host and coach Sarah Bowser shares why it’s so important to find what works for your brain when the system doesn’t fit. She covers why cookie-cutter routines often fail us, how to experiment without judgment, and what to do when everything feels like it’s falling apart. If you’re ready to stop forcing yourself to “fit the mold” and start organizing your life in a way that actually feels good for your wonderfully weird self, this episode is for you. 

Want to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits that Sarah shares? Go to thatweirdnerdymom.com to hop on her email list, or join her for weekly coworking on Mondays. 

What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• Why some popular productivity systems just don’t work for certain brains 
• How to spot your personal patterns and triggers in moments where it feels like everything is blowing up 
• What it means to experiment with different techniques without pressure 
• When to shift focus from “doing it perfectly” to “doing what works for me” 
• How your physical environment influences your ability to get your shit together 
• Why embracing your weird, nerdy strengths is the key to sustainable organization 

Resources mentioned in this episode: 

Pomodoro timer technique 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode:  

“Sometimes our brains just don’t work the way those systems are designed to, and that’s okay. It’s not about us failing. It’s about the system not fitting.” 

“What are the top three things that define your personality or strengths? Take those traits and think about how you can use them to help you get your shit together.” 

“We've all had those moments where it feels like everything is blowing up. Those don't come out of nowhere. Patterns, triggers or situations set them off.” 

“Stay curious and flexible. This isn't about finding a perfect forever solution. It's about gathering data to figure out what feels good and what doesn't.” 

“There's no one-size-fits-all solution, and that's a good thing. It means you get to create something uniquely yours.”

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

We tend to think of the chaos in our lives as our adversary. It can bring out our deepest fears. It can remind us of all the ways we feel imperfect, not good enough, or like we're failing to make other people happy, let alone ourselves. 

But what if chaos could be your friend? What if chaos could give you the freedom to be your wonderfully weird, nerdy self without fear or shame? What if it could be the spark that lets you explore new ideas, think outside the box, and embrace your individuality? 

In this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, host and coach Sarah Bowser explores how you can embrace the chaos in your life as a positive force that can serve you, your unique brain, and your unique needs. She emphasizes the importance of letting go of perfectionism, highlights strategies for managing clutter in our minds and physical spaces, and encourages us to use chaos to fuel creativity, experimentation, and personal growth. You can absolutely get your shit together and get organized while still embracing the chaos that makes you who you are. 

Want to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits that Sarah shares? Go to thatweirdnerdymom.com to hop on her email list, or join her for weekly coworking on Mondays. 

What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• Embracing the chaos that makes you who you are and managing it effectively gives you freedom and contributes to a life that honours individuality and imperfection. 
• Perfectionism often leads to paralysis; letting go of it allows for flexibility and adaptability. 
• Strategies like mindfulness and brain dumping can help you manage mental clutter and organize your thoughts. 
• Your physical spaces should be organized in a way that suits your needs, not aesthetic perfection. 
• Chaos can inspire creativity and personal growth, encouraging experimentation and acceptance of failure as part of the learning process. 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode:
“When we let go of perfectionism, we find freedom, flexibility, and adaptability become our new best friends.” 

“Chaos can be a fantastic catalyst for creativity and growth if you let it be that catalyst.” 

“Embracing your imperfections is what makes you relatable, real, and honestly way more fun to be around.” 

“Every failure is a stepping stone to success. It's how we learn, grow, and figure out what truly works for us.” 

 ”Chaos doesn't have to be your enemy. It can be your friend, your spark, your guide. The key is choosing how you engage with it. Are you letting the chaos overwhelm you or are you using it as a tool to embrace your quirks, fuel your creativity, and create a life that works for you?” 

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

So often we think that getting our shit together should be simple. You just need to buckle down and get it done. You make a start, make a little progress, but then you start to feel overwhelmed, and that sneaky little voice in the back of your head chimes in: “Everyone else has it together. Why can't I figure this out? What's wrong with me?”

Sound familiar?

Guilt is one of the biggest roadblocks we face when we're trying to get our shit together. It’s like that annoying house guest who overstays their welcome. 

But we don't have to let guilt take over. In this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, host and coach Sarah Bowser talks about how internalized pressure and unrealistic societal expectations can hinder our personal growth and well-being. She dives into how guilt sneaks into our lives, how we can start rewriting the story we tell ourselves, and how we can  let go of the guilt and pressure to be perfect. It's about finding balance, embracing your quirks, and focusing on what truly matters to you. 

Want to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits that Sarah shares? Go to thatweirdnerdymom.com to hop on her email list, or join her for weekly coworking on Mondays. 

What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• Aligning your actions with your core values is a way to reduce guilt and focus on what truly matters. 
• Self-compassion is a powerful tool for growth and healing, allowing you to learn from your mistakes without harsh self-criticism. 
• Strategies for managing feelings of overwhelm include prioritizing tasks, delegating, and prioritizing self-care. 
• Vulnerability and asking for help are strengths, enabling deeper connections and greater self-awareness. 
• Practical tools like brain dumps can help you organize your thoughts and prioritize tasks effectively. 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode:  
“Nobody is perfect. And trying to meet expectations of perfection only sets us up for anxiety and guilt.” 

“What if we embraced the idea that imperfections are just part of being human? Once we start embracing imperfection, we can begin rewriting the inner narrative that fuels our guilt.” 

 ”When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we open the door to deeper connections and greater self-awareness. Sometimes that means being okay with questioning yourself. What do I really want? What's working for me and what's not?” 

“Asking for help isn't a sign of weakness. It's a sign of strength.” 

“Cultivating self-compassion is one of the most powerful tools we have for growth and healing.” 

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

You know that moment in The Fellowship of the Ring when Gandalf is in the Mines of Moria, standing there with no recollection of the place? He's lost, surrounded by darkness, with no idea where to go. 

Sometimes life, and your own mind, can feel like that. When you're out of alignment, ignoring or betraying your core values, it can lead to anxiety, guilt, and a sense of being lost. But identifying and staying true to your core values can help guide you out of life’s mines and into the light. 

In this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, host and coach Sarah Bowser dives into why core values are so important, how you can uncover yours, and how to use them to navigate societal expectations. Sarah shares her own story of abandoning her values to fit in with a group before realizing that the key to belonging, cutting through mental chaos, and finding her way in the world was to identify and live in alignment with her core values. 

Want to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits that Sarah shares? Go to thatweirdnerdymom.com to hop on her email list, or join her for weekly coworking on Mondays. 

What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• Core values are the deeply held principles that guide your decisions, shape your actions, and define what truly matters to you. 
• You can uncover your core values by reflecting on past experiences and aligning your actions and decisions with them. 
• When you're aligned with your core values, your decisions become clearer, your relationships become more authentic, and your sense of self is much more grounded. 
• When societal expectations clash with your values, take a step back and remind yourself of what's truly important. 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode: 
“Your core values are your ultimate compass when you're feeling lost.” 

“Your core values aren't set in stone; they can evolve as you grow and change.” 

“Living in alignment with your core values also means making difficult decisions, sometimes saying no to opportunities or relationships that don't align with your values.” 

“Ask yourself, what's most important to me in life? What do I want to stand for? What do I want to leave behind?” 

“Think about moments when you felt truly happy, fulfilled, or proud of yourself... What values were you honoring? Then look for patterns and themes.” 

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/

Does this sound familiar? Don't stress about being perfect, but also make sure you look great, have everything together, and don't mess up. 

Society loves to remind us that there's no such thing as perfection, but then turns right around and expects us to be perfect. Perfectionism has been a shadow that's followed Get It Together, Weirdo host Sarah Bowse her entire life. She spent so much time and energy making sure everything was just right because she thought that's what she needed to do to feel worthy, to be accepted, to avoid losing everything. 

Spoilers, sweetie. She learned that she doesn’t need to be perfect. And neither do you. 

In this episode of Get It Together, Weirdo, Sarah dives into the vicious cycle of perfectionism and people pleasing — why we fall into it, how we can break free, and how we can embrace imperfection as part of our growth. 

Want to stay in the loop on new episodes, posts, and other tidbits that Sarah shares? Go to thatweirdnerdymom.com to hop on her email list, or join her for weekly coworking on Mondays. 

What you’ll learn in this episode: 

• Perfectionism can be an exhausting cycle, but recognizing it is the first step to breaking free. 
• Past experiences often shape our need for perfection, but understanding these roots helps untangle them. 
• It's okay to not have everything look perfect, be perfect, and stay perfect. 
• Learning to embrace imperfection is not only more sustainable but liberating and key to personal growth. 
• Mistakes and setbacks are where the magic happens  — with every mistake, you learn something new, become more resilient, and figure out what works for you. 

Noteworthy quotes from this episode:
“Society loves to remind us that there's no such thing as perfection, but then turns right around and expects us to be perfect.” 

“Maybe you grew up in an environment where mistakes weren't allowed or where praise only came when you did something perfectly.  Maybe you internalized the idea that your worth is tied to your achievements.” 

“ You don't need to perform or achieve or perfect your way into worthiness.” 

“When we start to understand the root of our beliefs around perfectionism, we can then begin to untangle them.” 

“I don't have to laminate everything, and neither do you.” 

Learn more about Sarah Bowser, That Weird, Nerdy Mom

• Follow Sarah on Instagram: @that_weirdnerdymom
• Visit Sarah’s website: thatweirdnerdymom.com
• Sign up for Sarah's email list: https://thatweirdnerdymom.kit.com/newsletter
• Check out Sarah’s “From Mental Chaos to Calm” coaching program: thatweirdnerdymom.com/mentalchaos/
• Learn about Sarah’s “Get Your Shit Organized” VIP day: thatweirdnerdymom.com/getyourshitorganized/