Get Married, Stay Married

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Ran Crawford dive into the concept of love languages infused with biblical principles. The discussion opens with a reflection on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and its relevance to love and marriage. They then explore the five love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch—offering practical insights and personal anecdotes. Emphasizing the importance of communication, honesty, and mutual respect, the hosts provide actionable advice for nurturing a healthy, loving relationship grounded in Christian faith.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:21 Biblical Principles of Love

02:12 The Power of Words in Love

06:27 Acts of Service in Relationships

09:42 Receiving Gifts and Constructive Criticism

14:07 Embracing Growth Through New Experiences

14:41 The Importance of Quality Time

16:25 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships

19:06 Creative Ways to Spend Quality Time

19:35 The Power of Physical Touch

20:12 Addressing Medical and Lifestyle Barriers

24:12 The Significance of Emotional Intimacy

25:33 Exploring and Accepting Love Languages

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the essence of leadership within a marriage. They emphasize the importance of both spouses contributing to a thriving, God-fearing relationship. Drawing from Ephesians 5:21, the discussion covers mutual submission, the roles of spiritual leadership, and the dynamic of co-leadership in various aspects including parenting, finances, and spiritual growth. Through anecdotes and thoughtful insights, they highlight how mutual respect, wisdom, and collaboration are crucial for a successful and balanced partnership. This episode also addresses common challenges and offers practical advice on nurturing each other’s strengths and maintaining unity in the pursuit of a shared vision.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:16 The Heart of Leadership in Marriage

00:39 Spiritual Leadership and Mutual Submission

01:31 The Role of Co-Leadership in Marriage

02:28 Challenges and Solutions in Marital Leadership

06:06 Encouraging Growth and Support in Marriage

13:30 Leadership in Different Aspects of Marriage

15:33 The Importance of a Supportive Village

15:51 Co-Parenting in the Same Household

16:21 Unified Parenting Strategies

18:15 Balancing Humor and Responsibilities

19:51 Embracing Each Other's Gifts

22:12 The Role of Leadership in Relationships

24:28 Navigating Sleep and Work Balance

28:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the critical influence of one's social circle on personal growth, relationships, and faith. They emphasize the importance of surrounding oneself with wise and supportive individuals as per Proverbs 13:20, and examine the negative impacts of toxic company. From dating advice to maintaining a healthy marriage, the discussion covers curating your social media, setting boundaries, and recognizing unhealthy behaviors such as gossip, competition, and lack of support. The hosts also outline the qualities of trustworthy and honest relationships, and the significance of having stretch friends who challenge you to grow. Concluding with a reflection exercise, this episode provides actionable insights for creating a positive and faith-aligned social circle.

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

00:13 The Importance of Your Circle

02:01 Influence of Habits and Company

06:11 Toxic Company and Social Media

07:52 Identifying Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships

10:03 The Dangers of Gossip

12:19 Competition and Jealousy

15:04 Lack of Support in Relationships

18:10 The Dangers of Comparison

18:35 Jealousy and Hard Work

20:41 The Importance of Trust in Relationships

22:13 Shared Values and Accountability

25:21 Stretch Friends and Growth Mindset

29:50 Setting Healthy Boundaries

33:15 Reflecting on Your Circle

Navigating In-Laws in Marriage: Love, Respect, and Healthy Boundaries

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford tackle the sticky subject of in-laws and offer guidance on navigating these relationships. They emphasize the importance of setting clear boundaries, having open communication, and approaching in-laws with love and respect. The discussion covers first impressions during dating, maintaining a positive outlook, and the biblical mandate to honor parents. They also address handling difficult in-laws, the significance of healthy boundaries, and the role of forgiveness. Concluding with advice for maintaining healthy family dynamics and promoting their ebook on effective communication, this episode is a valuable resource for couples aiming to build strong, respectful relationships with their in-laws.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:12 Navigating In-Laws: First Impressions

03:07 Setting Boundaries and Expectations

08:45 Honoring Parents in Marriage

13:09 Healthy Boundaries and Wisdom

17:34 Unchanging Principles in Relationships

18:32 Navigating Rocky Relationships

20:51 Handling In-Law Conflicts

24:08 The Power of Forgiveness

27:02 Advice for Women on In-Law Dynamics

29:50 Men and Cooking: A Modern Perspective

30:32 Conclusion and Resources

Biblical Parenting: Discipline, Love, and Modern Challenges

In this episode of 'Getting Married. Stay Married,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the principles of biblical parenting. They discuss the importance of Proverbs 22:6 in guiding children, the significance of being an exemplary parent, and how to incorporate God's teachings into daily life. The episode addresses modern parenting challenges, the dangers of leaving out Christ when raising children, and effective disciplinary techniques rooted in scripture. It also touches on the influence of technology and social media, offering practical advice for maintaining a balance between love and discipline. Concluding with a prayer for families and a shout-out to their new ebook on effective communication, this episode is a comprehensive guide for parents striving to raise Christian children in today's world.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:37 Biblical Parenting Principles

05:52 The Importance of Discipline

06:16 Communicating with Your Children

08:50 Discipline in Love

11:50 The Importance of Discipline in Parenting

12:26 Balancing Tough Love and Affection

12:38 The Constant Fight of Parenting

13:07 The Dangers of Too Much Freedom

13:49 Standing Firm on Boundaries

14:32 Teaching Discipline Through God's Word

15:43 The Role of Safety and Technology

16:19 Monitoring Children's Online Activities

17:55 The Influence of Vanity and Pride

18:27 Biblical Guidance for Parenting

21:36 The Power of Apologizing to Your Children

22:33 A Prayer for Families

23:42 Closing Remarks and Resources

Navigating Conflict Resolution in Marriage: Respect, Self-Control, and Effective Communication In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the intricacies of Conflict Resolution in marriage. They discuss the importance of respect, self-control, and effective communication in resolving conflicts. With a focus on maturity, humility, and understanding, they offer valuable biblical insights and practical advice for couples facing disagreements. They also address the dangers of avoidance, misdirected anger, and the impact of unresolved conflicts on relationships. Join them as they break down key strategies for fostering growth and maintaining a healthy, loving marriage.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:30 Understanding Conflict Resolution

01:24 The Importance of Respect in Conflict Resolution

02:10 Effective Communication Strategies

05:11 The Role of Self-Control and Gentleness

09:52 Addressing Avoidance and Silence

25:15 The Power of Apologies and Accountability

32:31 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Passion, Love, and the Pittsburgh Steelers: A Deep Dive into Marriage and Sports Fandom

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford share their enduring love for the Pittsburgh Steelers and how it intertwines with their marriage and family life. The couple discusses their long-term fandom, the emotional highs and lows associated with being sports fans, and how they engaged their children in the Steelers' fandom from birth. They also explore the importance of balancing sports passion with relationship priorities and maintaining strong Christian values. Despite the ups and downs, their love for each other and the Steelers remains strong, making for an engaging and heartwarming discussion.

00:00 Welcome to Get Married, Stay Married

00:35 Steelers Fandom: A Family Tradition

01:52 Falling in Love with Football

05:45 Favorite Steelers Players Through the Decades

11:08 The Importance of Football in Family Life

13:24 Coordinating with Boomerang

13:53 Balancing Sports and Marriage

16:04 Emotional Impact of Sports

18:28 Family and Football Stories

22:32 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans

Navigating Love and Politics in Marriage: Finding Harmony

In this episode of 'Get Married, Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the complex topic of 'Love and Politics.' They discuss how differing political views can create tension within a marriage, citing a Wakefield research study that reveals 29% of Americans view the political climate as a source of relationship stress. The hosts offer valuable insights on maintaining harmony, respecting each other's opinions, and placing faith and love above political disagreements. With a strong emphasis on Christian values and wisdom, they provide practical advice for couples to navigate these challenging times without letting politics disrupt their union.

Marrying Your Finances: Trust, Wisdom, and Realistic Expectations In this episode of 'Get Married Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford explore the intricate challenges of managing finances within marriage. They debunk the myth of a 50-50 split, instead advocating for mutual support, transparency, and the importance of aligned financial goals. Covering topics from pre-existing financial conditions to handling addiction and unforeseen expenses, the hosts stress the significance of trust, communication, and financial wisdom. With insights drawn from biblical scriptures and personal anecdotes, this episode is a practical guide for couples aiming to build a strong, financially secure, and united relationship.

In this episode of 'Get Married Stay Married,' hosts Lady T and Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the fundamental elements of forgiveness, trust, and grace in sustaining a healthy marriage. They address misconceptions about forgiveness, stress the importance of reconciliation, and highlight the need for transparency and mutual confession. The conversation delves into overcoming infidelity, distinguishing between minor and major issues, and the spiritual aspects of forgiveness using biblical scripture. Offering practical insights and spiritual guidance, the episode culminates in a prayer for healing and encourages couples to embrace grace for stronger, more loving relationships.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:37 Understanding Forgiveness in Marriage

02:22 The Role of Confession in Forgiveness

05:38 Forgiving Yourself

09:50 Moving Past Infidelity

10:01 Establishing a Pattern of Trust 12:14 Spiritual Perspective on Forgiveness 12:29 The Power of Forgiveness 13:06 Conflict Resolution in Relationships 15:00 Addressing Serious Issues in Marriage 16:04 The Importance of Transparency 17:12 Biblical Teachings on Forgiveness 19:59 Grace and Health 22:17 Healing and Prayer 22:53 Conclusion and Listener Engagement