Real talk, few days pass without me hearing of someone being upset about a "friend" or finding out that someone grew a huge insecurity  because of "friends". As someone who is fairly selective for originally very different reasons, it often confuses me what people consider as friendship and what not. And while quite frankly I don't care how you live your life in that aspect, I want to lay out a couple of thoughts in hopes that it fosters more quality friendships and frees people from unnecessary shackles. Man, I just want more people to enjoy great friendships!!