They tell you to get your mind out of the gutter.

But what if that’s exactly where the truth lives?

Gutter Wisdom is the podcast for the capable, complex human who followed the rules — and still wasn’t prepared for what happens when comfort falls apart.

Hosted by Priestess Francesca. A professional Dominatrix, former HVAC engineer, and trauma-informed sexologist. This show dismantles the wall between your erotic life and your life.

We don’t do goddess platitudes or spiritual bypassing.

And we don’t offer tidy answers or healing fantasies.

Instead, we use sexuality as the ultimate diagnostic lens; a way to examine pressure, power, desire, and what actually holds when things get intense.

Because whether you’re in the bedroom, the boardroom, or standing on a subway platform at rush hour, the mechanics are the same:

If you ignore the friction…

If you suppress the pressure…

Eventually, the whole thing blows.

Expect episodes on:

• Somatic literacy (and why “regulation” is often just a polite way to avoid what you’re feeling)
• The psychology of kink, power dynamics, and BDSM as real-world skill sets
• Navigating trauma, shadow, and desire without the fluff or false safety
• Unfiltered stories from the dungeon to everyday life, served with a side of Brooklyn grit

Find Your Baseline

Before the first protocol drops, discover your erotic baseline and see exactly where pressure is leaking in your system.

👉 Take the Engineering Hotness Quiz

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