It is up to us to get hurt or not. 

There will be many people who may hurt us through their words and actions. If we have the self belief, self confidence and maturity we will respond to a situation instead of reacting. 

No one can hurt us unless we choose to get hurt.

https://saibalsanskaar.wordpress.com/2016/04/27/getting-hurt-a-choice/

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