Getting Into The Swing Of Things

By Steak and Tequila

What's Getting Into The Swing Of Things about?

Our podcast has ended, but you can still find us on Snapchat @ steakandtequila, and Mrs. Tequila as DeepHouseDomme on SoundCloud, Etsy, Insta, Twitter, and OnlyFans

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Getting Into The Swing Of Things episodes:

08.16.2023
Episode No. 33 - The Last Episode (or There Are Aliens, I’m Not Going To The Club)
After 6 years of swinging, and a lot of thinking since 2020, we are out of the LS as it no longer serves us. In this episode, we talk about what led to this decision, how we’ve been feeling, and...
12.23.2021
Episode No. 31 - Covid and Cancer
Our year-long hiatus is over! We took a break from swinging because of the pandemic, and then just as we were vaccinated, Mr. Steak’s dad was diagnosed with cancer. We talk (and cry) about isolation, mental health, death, and ending...
06.16.2020
Episode No. 30 - Pandemic, Protests, and Porn
COVID took us out for a 4-month hiatus, as all of our LS fun was put on hold. In this episode we talk about our adventures right before quarantine, what we did to entertain ourselves in lock down, how we...
02.24.2020
Episode No. 29 - Hard Conversations and an Unexpected Crossed Boundary
The Lifestyle is a journey in personal growth. In this episode we talk about the evolution of our communication as a couple. We discuss having hard conversations with swinger friends and what happens with an unexpectedly crossed non-sexual boundary.
12.27.2019
Episode No. 28 - Kinky Christmas
Kinky Christmas is a night of indulging in various kinks not typically experienced in swinging. After our marathon of sexy kinks, we’re joined that morning with our friends from Vegas, B and L, to recount our night together as special...
12.26.2019
Episode No. 27 - Ladies Hotel Getaway Weekend
Mrs. Tequila and FWB Unicorn go on a weekend date down in the city together. They have too much fun and end up staying in the room for the entire time having an incredibly hot party night. Mr. Steak comes...
12.05.2019
Episode No. 26 - Princess Week For Mrs. Tequila
Mrs. Tequila wins a bet with Mr. Steak and has “princess week” where she gets to do all of the sexy things she wants. We detail our adventures that week, including ending it with an incredible MFM and getting kicked...
10.08.2019
Episode No. 25 - Our first unicorn experience, and she joins us as a special guest!
In this episode we share our first unicorn experience with our super hot and fun FWB turned unicorn, and she joins us as a podcast guest! Also making her our first guest ever! It’s a sexy one, so be ready...
08.22.2019
Episode No. 24 - First DP And DVP With Vegas Friends
Our friends we made in Vegas from episode No. 23 make a special detour on their vacation to visit us. The first time someone has traveled to swing with us. We share a classic steak & tequila dinner and lingerie...
06.17.2019
Episode No. 23 - Steak And Tequila Go To Vegas
We celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary in the city we met, married and lived our early years of debauchery - Vegas! We visit PlayhouseLV for swinger fun, resonate with “attracting the energy you want” - a philosophy a new fun...
01.30.2019
Episode No. 22 - Getting Groped in The Lifestyle. It’s Happening
Everyone always talks about the importance of consent in the lifestyle, but it doesn’t mean that it’s always practiced. We talk about our inappropriate touching experiences we’ve had, our struggles on how to deal with it, and sexual assault awareness...
12.21.2018
Episode No. 21 - The Story Of A Totally Unexpected, Unplanned, Orgy
Mrs. Tequila models in a photoshoot that ends up in a MFFFFM orgy afterward. There was play that was too rough that needed navigation, and details on how to make a tricky situation work out in the end.
12.03.2018
Episode No. 20 - When Swinger and Professional Life Collide At A House Party
Running into someone from your professional life in a lifestyle environment is what swinger nightmares are made of. In this episode we talk about how it happened to us and how we were outed. We also talk about house party...
09.10.2018
Episode No. 19 - Foam Party, Flogging, Feeldoe, and Summer Sunday Funday
In this episode we go to our first summer foam party at the club. Mrs. Tequila discovers flogging in the lifestyle is fun. And then we leave our late night shenanigans to experience a swinger Sunday brunch, wrapping up our...
08.28.2018
Episode No. 18 - Gangbang Dick Juggling
In this episode we share the story of our first gang bang and the details of how we organized it. It was perfect!!
07.17.2018
Episode No. 17 - Zen And The Art Of Group Fucking
After 3 years in our lifestyle adventures, we finally meet our match with a FWB couple, have a series of first repeats, let go of boundaries on the fly, and get introspective about the key to Mrs. Tequila’s orgasm in...
06.11.2018
Episode No. 16 - Wading through apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Feeld to find a match to our wild ways
In this episode we share how we utilize dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Feeld and share crazy stories of the people we’ve met so far, including finally finding that magical 4-way connection with a couple who can hang with...
05.14.2018
Episode No. 15 - Our First House Party And Sybian Ride
We detail our experience of our first house party, Mrs. Tequila’s first time on a Sybian, and a straight up wild night with a super hot couple, that ended with a unicorn disappearing into the mist. We drunkenly thought holding...
05.02.2018
Episode No. 14 - Business Trip Hall Passes And Therapy Couches
In this episode we discuss our business trip hall pass experiences from January, getting on Tinder to find dates, and share the heart-to-heart, tear-filled conversation about feelings of trying an open marriage and solo play for the first time. Mrs....
04.16.2018
Episode No. 13 - Bringing In The New Year With A Bang (Literally)
Our first swinging adventure coming out of hiatus was on New Year's Eve at the club where we had one hell of a party night. Fun conversation with friends, anonymous sex with strangers, and 5 hours of all night sexcapades.
04.11.2018
Episode No. 12 - Back From Swinger Hibernation
We were out of the swing of things for a year, but now we are back from our swinger hibernation! In this episode we tell you why, and where we go from here.
03.16.2017
Episode No. 11 - Our First Threesome With A Single Guy
After four months of waiting for the stars to align to meet the right single guy, we finally met up with someone we clicked with. People talk about how finding a single guy in the lifestyle is easy. It is...
03.02.2017
Episode No. 10 - You Don't Have To Be Perfect, As Long As You're Having Fucking Fun
After meeting new fun people at a meet and greet, we exchange numbers with some and end up having a super fun full swap a couple of days later. Best lesson from this experience, you don't have to be perfect...
02.16.2017
Episode No. 9 - Wild Times On Our Second Visit at The Swingers Club
With little sleep, we recorded this episode from the hotel bed to share our story of EDM dancing, exhibitionist sex, excessive squirting, giving single guys rando BJ's, dealing with non-consent in the club, and how Mrs. Tequila has more fun...
02.02.2017
Episode No. 8 - Learning Not To Take It Personally
In episode no. 7 we discussed how the lifestyle is making us realize there are different flavors of disappointment, and Mrs. Tequila has an epiphany about taking rejection personally, remembering lessons from the book The Four Agreements.
01.19.2017
Episode No. 7 - Our First Time at the Swingers Club
We share our story about our very first time going to the swings club for the erotic holiday party. It's a story full of lessons learned the hard way. We fucked up, instead of getting fucked.
01.05.2017
Episode No. 6 - First Time Swingers Club Jitters
The reality of getting ready to visit the swingers club for the first time starts to set in, and Mrs. Tequila experiences a pang of anxiety when Mr. Steak purchased the event tickets for the erotic holiday ball. So, what...
12.21.2016
Episode No. 5 - The Hypocrisy of Communication in The Lifestyle
After our first swap-gone-wrong, we get back on the horse and start looking for a single guy for a MFM threesome party. We thought this would be easy to organize. Shockingly, it is not! We talk about online dating struggles...
12.09.2016
Episode No. 4 - Analyzing Complicated Feelings and the Emotional Roller Coaster After a First Swap
Things get deep and introspective in this episode as we process all of the feelings that Mrs. Tequila began to sort through after our first full swap. It got messy. We peel back the layers to understanding complicated feelings and...
11.25.2016
Episode No. 3 - Our First Full Swap. Or Kind Of.
A hungover conversation about out first full swap that had happened the night before. Prepare for a NSFW converstaion
11.10.2016
Episode No. 2 - First Girls Uncorked
Mrs. Tequila walks in the door from her first Girls Uncorked event, and tells Mr. Steak all about the things they talked about and what she learned from chatting with other lifestyle ladies. Along with wine-induced rambling conversation.
11.10.2016
Episode No. 1 - The Creation Of The Fuck It List
Who are Steak and Tequila? How did we get into the swinging lifestyle? Get the dirt from our first episode.

What's Getting Into The Swing Of Things about?

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Getting Into The Swing Of Things episodes:

Episode No. 33 - The Last Episode (or There Are Aliens, I’m Not Going To The Club)

Episode No. 31 - Covid and Cancer

Episode No. 30 - Pandemic, Protests, and Porn

Episode No. 29 - Hard Conversations and an Unexpected Crossed Boundary

Episode No. 28 - Kinky Christmas

Episode No. 27 - Ladies Hotel Getaway Weekend

Episode No. 26 - Princess Week For Mrs. Tequila

Episode No. 25 - Our first unicorn experience, and she joins us as a special guest!

Episode No. 24 - First DP And DVP With Vegas Friends

Episode No. 23 - Steak And Tequila Go To Vegas

Episode No. 22 - Getting Groped in The Lifestyle. It’s Happening

Episode No. 21 - The Story Of A Totally Unexpected, Unplanned, Orgy

Episode No. 20 - When Swinger and Professional Life Collide At A House Party

Episode No. 19 - Foam Party, Flogging, Feeldoe, and Summer Sunday Funday

Episode No. 18 - Gangbang Dick Juggling

Episode No. 17 - Zen And The Art Of Group Fucking

Episode No. 16 - Wading through apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Feeld to find a match to our wild ways

Episode No. 15 - Our First House Party And Sybian Ride

Episode No. 14 - Business Trip Hall Passes And Therapy Couches

Episode No. 13 - Bringing In The New Year With A Bang (Literally)

Episode No. 12 - Back From Swinger Hibernation

Episode No. 11 - Our First Threesome With A Single Guy

Episode No. 10 - You Don't Have To Be Perfect, As Long As You're Having Fucking Fun

Episode No. 9 - Wild Times On Our Second Visit at The Swingers Club

Episode No. 8 - Learning Not To Take It Personally

Episode No. 7 - Our First Time at the Swingers Club

Episode No. 6 - First Time Swingers Club Jitters

Episode No. 5 - The Hypocrisy of Communication in The Lifestyle

Episode No. 4 - Analyzing Complicated Feelings and the Emotional Roller Coaster After a First Swap

Episode No. 3 - Our First Full Swap. Or Kind Of.

Episode No. 2 - First Girls Uncorked

Episode No. 1 - The Creation Of The Fuck It List