Don't let weeks, months, and even years go by without making an intentional decision. You just let life happen to you, and you wonder why things don't change. When you don't make a decision, you're training yourself to continue that pattern in future situations.

Don't get stuck in paralysis. Make the decision. Take action. Even if it turns out to be the wrong decision, you made it with intentionality and you'll be able to adjust and do things differently in the future. You'll learn not just from the experience, but about yourself and the decisions you make. Give a clear yes or no.