We all have some sense that there is some destiny for our lives to fulfil and yet so many people struggle lay hold of that, to really start to live the life that know is fulfilling their destiny. That’s why I think it actually means to live our lives to the full that’s what I think it means to get the most out of life.

 

Living Life to the Full (1)

So can I ask you something? Are you really living the life to the full? I mean really. The worst possible outcome to my life and I think to yours too, is to get to the end of it one day and to look back and think to ourselves ‘I think I missed out, I don’t think I lived the life I was meant to live, I don’t’ think I’ve fulfilled my destiny. If only I could go back and live it again and do it properly this time.’ Don’t you agree? Wouldn’t that be just the most tragic outcome to our lives here on earth?

It seems to me that we can be alive and kicking but not really living life. We can be alive but for all and intense and purposes be dead. So I guess when I talk about discovering your destiny is what I’m really talking about is being who you were always meant to be and living the life you were always meant to live. Getting the most out of life, is that something you want? I certainly do, and I hope you do as well.

And so today we’re going to take a look at a man who in a very real sense managed to get a second chance and whatever you may think of his story, his name is Lazarus, the question is, what does it say about your life here and now and the possibility of a second chance?

It’s a powerful story the story of Lazarus. It’s about a real man who died and whom Jesus we’re told brought back to life again. Now there are two parts to the story, we’ll look at the first half right now and the second part after a short break on the program so let's have a bit of a read. Johns Gospel chapter 11 is where you’ll find the story of Lazarus.

Now a man named Lazarus was sick, he was from Bethany the village of Mary and her sister Martha. Now this Mary who’s brother Lazarus now lay sick was the same one who had previously poured perfume on Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair. So the sister’s sent word to Jesus, ‘Lord, the one you love Lazarus is sick’. When he heard this Jesus said, ‘The sickness won’t end in death. No, it’s for God’s glory so that God’s son may be glorified though it.

Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus yet when he heard that Lazarus was sick he stayed where he was for two more days and then he said to his disciples, ‘Well ok, lets get up and go to Judea’. ‘But Jesus,’ they said, ‘a short while ago Jews there tried to stone you and here you’re going back?’ And Jesus answered them, Isn’t there 12 hours of daylight in a day? A man who walks by day won’t stumble for he sees the worlds light, its when he walks by night that he stumbles for he has no light.’

After he said these things he went on to tell them, ‘Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep but I’m going there to wake him up again’. And his disciples replied, ‘But if he sleeps he’ll get better.’ But Jesus had been speaking of his death and the disciples thought that he was just asleep. So then he told them plainly, ‘Lazarus is dead, and for your sake I’m glad I wasn’t there so that you may believe. But let us go to him right now’.”

The last couple of programs we’ve dealt with an issue, well, so many of us don’t really want to deal with head on – sin. I mean in our world sin is something of a four-letter word. The stuff in our lives we know is wrong that robs us of life itself, when I look back on my life as a wealth apparently successful businessman on the outside people envied me. I seemed to have it all together and I seemed to have it all, but on the inside I was dying. I was dead and empty and hollow just like a shell, truly. I describe myself as a dead man walking. And so many people are living their lives that way today, truly they are!

Are the things you're doing wrong robbing you of the life you were meant to be having? Are you a bit like this Lazarus alive sort of but not really? Sure physically alive but spiritually through the things you are doing with your life not really having a life at all?

You know something, it doesn’t matter how much we deny it and try and put a respectable face to it, or sell it as a feature of our freedom to do whatever we want, sin does that to all of us. It makes us dead on the inside. At this point someone might be saying, "Come on Bernie, what an old fashioned point of view." If you’re in that camp I encourage you to do something, take a look, a good hard look at the way you are living your life and ask yourself am I really being the me I was meant to be? Am I really living the life I was meant to live?

Do I have this sense that I’m fulfilling my destiny? See to me, it’s a tragedy when people can’t answer those questions with a clear assurance that yes they are being the person they were meant to be. Yes they do have a deep sense that they’re fulfilling their destiny that God has for them because that’s what God wants for your life, he wants a new life. Let's look at new life; let's look at how things unfold in this story of Lazarus.

When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him and Mary stayed at home. “Lord, Martha said to him, if you’d been here, if you’d only been hear earlier Lazarus wouldn’t’ have died!’ and Jesus said to her, ‘Your brother will rise again.’ But Martha answer, ‘I know he’ll rise again in the resurrection on that last day.’ Jesus said to her ‘I am the resurrection and the life, who ever believes in me will live even though he dies and who ever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?’ And she said, ‘Yes lord, I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God who has come into this world.’

And after she said this she went back and called her sister Mary, ‘The teacher Jesus is here.’ she said, ‘he’s asking for you.’ when Mary heard this she quickly got up and went out to him. Now Jesus had not yet entered their village but was still in the place where Martha had met him, when the Jews who had been with Mary in the house comforting her noticed how quickly she got up and went out they followed her thinking that she was going to the tomb to mourn there for Lazarus.

When Mary reached Jesus and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, ‘Lord if only you had been here my brother wouldn’t’ have died.’ And when Jesus saw her weeping and the Jews who had come along also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit was troubled. ‘Where have you laid him?’ ‘Come and see Lord.’ And Jesus wept. And the Jews said, ‘See Jesus loved Lazarus!” But some of them said, ‘Couldn’t he who opened the eyes of the blind come and kept this man from dying?’

See here’s the thing, nobody was expecting Jesus to come along and raise Lazarus from the dead. And when we look at our lives and when we see our dead things can be on the inside and we look at God and say, ‘God, why didn’t you show up earlier?’ And we can’t imagine how God could possibly breath life into our situation, we can believe he could have done something back then like the people with Lazarus, he could have stopped him from dying. We can believe that one day we will rise again and have eternal life, but it can be so hard so hard to believe that Jesus could come and breath a new life today, here and now. Let me ask you, what do you believe?

 

Living life to the full (2)

Well let's get back to the Lazarus story because there is so much more in it about living our lives to the full, remember that everyone wanted Jesus to have fixed the problem before Lazarus died, but Jesus had said to his disciples he had a different plan. A plan that people around him didn’t really understand, so no one could see it.

Jesus was saying to Martha, Lazarus’ sister. He said, "Your brother will rise again." But Martha said, "Look, I know he’ll rise again on the resurrection on the last day" so she doesn’t get it. She’s happy to believe in pie in the sky when you die but not so much about steak on the plate while you wait if that makes sense.

Lets pick up the story and lets read the simple story, its in John’s gospel chapter 11 and it begins verse 38:

Jesus was deeply moved when he came to the tomb, it was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. ‘Take away the stone’, he said. ‘But Lord,’ said Martha the sister of Lazarus said, ‘by this time a bad odour will be there, I mean he’s been dead for four days!’ And Jesus said, ‘Didn’t I tell you that if you believed you would see the Glory of God?’”

I love that! If you believe you will see the glory of God!

So they took away the stone and Jesus stood up and said, ‘Father I thank you that you have heard me, I always knew that you would but I’m saying this for the benefit of the people around that they might believe that you have sent me.’ And when he had said this Jesus said in a loud voice ‘Lazarus, come out!’ The dead man came out. His hands and feet were wrapped with strips of linen and a cloth was around his face, and Jesus said to them, ‘Take off the grave clothes and let him go.’ ”

Jesus was deeply moved … I mean he loved Lazarus and his sisters Mary and Martha; he cared for them! Lazarus was a good friend, that’s why Jesus wept for him. So it’s not some publicity stunt, but it’s a tender encounter when people were thinking well, what’s Jesus up to? He can’t do this I mean Lazarus is dead he’s going to smell, he’s on the nose, his flesh is already rotting!

I reckon we have to be very, very careful indeed about telling God what he can and can’t do. About putting God in a little box of our expectations, imagining somehow that he could somehow never bring Lazarus back to life, imagining somehow he could never really bring life back into us!

You see, all these people – Mary, Martha, the disciples all the others – they’d seen Jesus do amazing things, do amazing miracles, yet they couldn’t believe that he would actually bring a man back to life. It didn’t even enter their minds, but he did! And look at the picture of Lazarus when he walks out of the tomb. ‘Lazarus come out!’ said Jesus. The dead man came out, his hands and his feet where wrapped with strips of linen and a cloth was around his face.

See Lazarus was bound up in his grave clothes, and this looks a lot like some people that I know. Living a half-life. On the one hand Jesus has spoken a word of life into them but on the other they’re still bound up in their grave clothes, bound up in the things of the past, the old life. When Lazarus walked out of that tomb, beneath those grave clothes he was living and breathing there was colour in his cheeks but he couldn’t’ live the rest of this life wrapped in those grave clothes and the same is true for you and me.

Some people have life flowing through their veins because Jesus put it there and yet they have one foot in the past in that dead half-life that didn’t work, trying to live life to the full, kind of hoping things would work out but they never quite did. The picture of a living man wrapped in grave clothes is the picture of many a man’s life, many a woman’s life. We want to live life to the full, we want to discover our destiny and yet the past wraps us up and stops us from doing that. You know something, there is a reason for that. You can’t live your life wrapped in grave clothes.

What sort of life do you think would it have been if Lazarus had continued on wrapped in those grave clothes? And anyway, that wasn’t Jesus’ plan for him, Jesus said to them, "Take off the grave clothes and let him go." You like that bit? Let him go, set him free. Set him free to be the Lazarus he was always meant to be.
Friend, how are you living your life? Is your life lived to the full? Or is your life held back by the past? Is it a life filled with joy and peace or are you still struggling with the stupid things you keep doing all the time? Is it a life of freedom or is a life wrapped in the grave clothes of your past?

I can ask you those questions but I can’t answer them for you, only you can do that. And wherever you are does a question rise up in your heart, a question that goes something like this? "Isn’t there some better way of living my life? There has to be!" Well there is, and it’s a personal thing. "Aww you know Berni, but I want to hang on to this compromise or that old attitude I still want to cheat or lie or be tight with my money or not serve other people and I want to be selfish because you know, all this Jesus stuff is not particularly convenient." Great, great! Stay in your grave clothes, but don’t expect to live your life to the full. Don’t expect to realise your destiny.

The alternative is to set our hearts like flint on living life to the full know matter what the cost. You know there is a cost. There is a cost for a heroin addict to give up heroin and there is a cost for an alcoholic to give up alcohol and a cost for a smoker to give up smoking. The first step always is admitting who we are, where we’re at and the second is the step of deciding here and now, "You know something that joker on the radio has a point. I DO have to do something, I can’t live my life wrapped in these grave clothes anymore."

And you know our grave clothes are all different. For some people it might be lying and cheating, for others it might be gossiping, for other people it might just be a deep attitude of selfishness. You look in the mirror and you know what it is, and yet we’re powerless to take off the grave clothes until Jesus speaks his power into our lives and says, "Take off the grave clothes and set him free."

My friend the answer, the only answer is Jesus. Jesus is the one whose power breathed new life into Lazarus, Jesus is the one who set him free. Jesus is the one that can bring new life to you and to your life and set your free from the things of the past that have robbed you of your life, the full life the life God made you to live. THE answer, the only answer is Jesus.

 

A New Creation

You know, it can be a lot easier to believe in something way, way out there something spiritual, something crazy even, than it can be to believe that anyone or anything could improve the lives that we’re living right at the moment. How could anyone take a beaten up old wreck like me, me for goodness sakes and do anything with me?

I want to be the "me" I was meant to be, I want to live the life I was meant to live, but it all just seems impossible, but you know so many people have that problem. I had that problem. It's just incredible to me how easily we throw ourselves onto the scrap heap. How easily other people put us out there on the scrap heap. How easily the advertising industry and our economy and all that stuff throw us out onto the scrap heap!

It’s interesting to me that back in Jesus’ day there were plenty of people ordinary people like you and me, people who weren’t rich or powerful and some of them were outcasts of society. If you were disabled in someway, blind or lame, you became a beggar because there was no social welfare system in first century Israel. If you had certain types of diseases, leprosy for instance you became an outcast. If you had certain types of occupation a tax collector, you were an outcast.

We have an amazing propensity as people to push other people away for all sorts of different reasons, and sometimes we’re not even being pushed away so much as well, you have an unhealthy perception of ourselves, low self esteem it’s called these days, or an inability to trust people.

There are so many different things from within and without that can act to isolate us to make us feel as though we don’t belong and that tragedy of all that is that people live their whole lives not belonging, not feeling loved, not feeling accepted, as a result well what do you do? That’s the question.

Each person is valuable. You’re valuable, you’re beautiful, you have gifts and ability that can have such a great impact on this world if only other people could see that, if only let's face it, if only we could see that in ourselves some days. But how?

There is a beautiful poem by Myra Brooks-Welsh, I’d like to share it with you today. It’s call "The Touch of the Masters Hand". Maybe you’ve heard it before and maybe you haven’t but it’s really worth listening to because speaks into this very dilemma.

T'was battered and scarred and the auctioneer,
thought it scarcely worth his while
to waste much time on the old violin
but he held it up with a smile.
"What am I bidding good folks?" He cried.
"Who'll start the bidding for me?
A dollar, a dollar then two, only two?
Two dollars and who'll make it three?

Three dollars once, three dollars twice,
going for three." But no,
from the room far back a grey haired man
came forward and picked up the bow.
Then wiping the dust from the old violin
and tightening the loosened strings
he played a melody pure and sweet
as carolling angels sing.

The music ceased and the auctioneer,
with a voice that was quiet and low
said, "What am I bid for the old violin?"
And he held it up with a bow.
"A thousand dollars? Who'll make it two?
Two thousand and who'll make it three?
Three thousand once, three thousand twice
and going and gone." Said he.

The people cheered but some of them cried,
“We don't quite understand,
what changed its worth?" And swift came the reply,
"The touch of the masters hand."

And many a man with life out of tune
and battered and scarred with sin
is auctioned cheap to a thoughtless crowd
much like the old violin.

A mess of pottage, a glass of wine,
a game and he travels on. He's going once, going twice,
he's going and almost gone.
But the master comes and the foolish crowd
never can quite understand.
The worth of a soul and the change
that is wrought by the touch of the Master’s hand.

It's only now as I look back on those twenty years of living this new life that I can see how little by little I’ve become the "me" I was meant to be. I keep stressing this but I’m not here to tell you what to believe or how you should see the world, that’s something you need to figure out for yourself. But what I can do is tell you how this played itself out in my life.

Around twenty years ago, I was experiencing deep depression and I had this sense of worthlessness. I thought I’d lost everything; all my hopes and dreams and my future. I was that dusty old violin. Truly! People don’t expect the guy on the radio to talk about himself like that, but that’s exactly how it was!

I just couldn’t see beyond tomorrow. I couldn’t see how I could possibly be useful again, or achieve anything or become the "me" I was meant to be! Who the heck was I anyway? But there is something you have to recognise about that dusty old violin. It’s still a violin. Maybe it’s been neglected. Maybe he’s been disused, maybe it’s out of tune, maybe it doesn’t look that good anymore, but it’s still a violin. All that it needs is for someone to see it for what it is and that someone in my life is Jesus.

This God they talk about who appeared somewhat irrelevant to me in most of my life was the one that stepped forward from the back of the room to show me exactly what I’m worth, and that right there was the most amazing experience of my life. Still is. You and I are made in the image of God you want to read about that? Go to the very first chapter of the bible, the book of Genesis the first page and it’ll tell you that God looked at everything that he created and he said, "Let us make man in our image. Male and female he created us."

Our mistakes and all the stuff that life throws at us can definitely make us look and feel and sound like that old violin but you know something all that it needs is for the master to come along and tune the strings a bit and strike up a tune and all of a sudden everybody else remembers what they had forgotten…its still a violin!

When I gave my life to Jesus almost two decades ago, things started to happen…they didn’t happen quickly from were I sat. In fact it felt like it took forever but other people would say to me, "Goodness what’s happened to you? How was it that you’re on the radio and you're speaking with all these people? How’s that?"

Nothing to do with me! I was just a battered old violin in the corner, washed up but then there was a touch of the Master’s hand. And He came along and He struck up a tune. He knew exactly who I was and what He made me to be and what He made me to do and the tune he made me to play. And He put me in that place and that’s what I’m doing today. And that same God, that same Jesus is here today to meet you in the place where you are.