We all get stuck; at work, at home, and in the stories, we tell ourselves. In this conversation, Debbie Holcomb, founder of Gracing Experiences and co‑founder of Women Revealed, joins host Amish Shah to unpack shadow work, how shame shows up, and practical ways to move from blame to ownership so relationships can heal and thrive. Debbie explains why our earliest imprints (ages 0–10) shape adult patterns, how “inflated” traits keep us stuck, and simple shifts that change everything like taking 100% responsibility for your 50% and changing the goal from agreement to understanding. 

You’ll come away with tools for presence, communication, and connection, including how to use the Enneagram as a translator (not a label) so you can speak to people in the way they best hear you. Whether you’re leading a team or leading at home, this episode will help you build better bridges. 

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About Debbie

Free Enneagram Test

Enneagram Made Easy Book

Shadow Work