𝗚𝗵𝗼𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗮𝗹𝘀𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗮𝘀 "𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱'𝘀 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗼𝘂𝘁."

The opposite of love isn’t hate, it's indifference. Ghosting, for those of you who haven’t yet experienced it, is having someone that you believe cares about you, whether it be a friend or someone you are dating, disappear from contact without any explanation at all. No phone call or email, not even a text. It turns out ghosting really hurts worse than a straight-up rejection. You really don't get a firm sense of what happened. Plus you feel like you weren't even worth a courtesy communication. Ghosting just makes no logical sense other than showing that that person is a coward and can’t tell you they just aren’t interested.

Look, this is something to keep in mind. If you get ghosted, you are dealing with a down-right rude person, with what seems to be 0 manners and absolutely 0 respect towards you. Sure looks and personality are cool, though, In my opinion, manners and respect will come first. You don't want a person that comes and goes whenever they want to and gives you mixed signals making you guess over and over about the way that person feels about you. 

Ghosting hurts and it makes you question yourself. Don't get into the trap of analyzing what you did or didn't do. You were being yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. The right person will dig that. Once you allow yourself to feel your feelings, you accept what is and move on with life. I know it's not that easy but hey, 

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞.