Girl, What Was I Thinking?

EPISODE 3: Why Am I Never Enough? — Understanding the Fear of Abandonment

Have you ever found yourself doing everything possible to keep someone from leaving, even when the relationship was costing you your peace?

Maybe you overgive. Maybe you become anxious when someone pulls away. Maybe you accept inconsistency because deep down, you're afraid that asking for more will cause you to lose the connection altogether.

But what happens when the fear of being abandoned causes you to abandon yourself?

In this episode of Girl, What Was I Thinking?, we're unpacking the fear of abandonment, how childhood conditioning and past relationships can influence our sense of worth, and why we sometimes become attached to people who cannot give us the emotional security we desire.

We'll explore people-pleasing, anxious attachment, relationship patterns, and the importance of learning to trust ourselves instead of constantly seeking reassurance from others.

Because the goal isn't to become someone nobody will ever leave.

The goal is to become a woman who knows she will not abandon herself, regardless of who stays or goes.

It's time to recognize, reflect, and reinvent.

Hosted by Zada Monroe | Girl2Woman

Explore more: https://girl2woman.co

EPISODE 3: Why Am I Never Enough? — Understanding the Fear of Abandonment

Have you ever found yourself doing everything possible to keep someone from leaving, even when the relationship was costing you your peace?

Maybe you overgive. Maybe you become anxious when someone pulls away. Maybe you accept inconsistency because deep down, you're afraid that asking for more will cause you to lose the connection altogether.

But what happens when the fear of being abandoned causes you to abandon yourself?

In this episode of Girl, What Was I Thinking?, we're unpacking the fear of abandonment, how childhood conditioning and past relationships can influence our sense of worth, and why we sometimes become attached to people who cannot give us the emotional security we desire.

We'll explore people-pleasing, anxious attachment, relationship patterns, and the importance of learning to trust ourselves instead of constantly seeking reassurance from others.

Because the goal isn't to become someone nobody will ever leave.

The goal is to become a woman who knows she will not abandon herself, regardless of who stays or goes.

It's time to recognize, reflect, and reinvent.

Hosted by Zada Monroe | Girl2Woman

Explore more: https://girl2woman.co

Why Do I Trust Everyone Else's Opinion More Than My Own?

How many dreams have you talked yourself out of because somebody else didn't believe in them?

Girl, let's talk about it.

Have you ever been excited about a decision, a dream, or a new direction in your life—until you shared it with your parents, family, friends, or partner? Suddenly, their doubts became your doubts. Their fears became your fears. And before you knew it, you were questioning the very thing you once felt so sure about.

Sound familiar?

In this episode of Girl, What Was I Thinking?, we're unpacking the fear of judgment, the need for approval, and how years of people-pleasing can condition us to trust everyone else's opinions more than our own intuition.

Because here's the thing: You can love and respect the people in your life without handing them the authority to make your decisions.

We're getting into:

• Why we fear disappointing the people closest to us.
• How childhood conditioning and people-pleasing affect our confidence and decision-making.
• The difference between seeking advice and seeking permission.
• Why fear of failure and hearing "I told you so" keeps us playing small.
• How to stop second-guessing yourself and start rebuilding self-trust.
• Learning to make decisions even when the people you love don't understand or support them.

If you've been waiting for someone to believe in you, approve of your choices, or give you permission to pursue the life you actually want, this conversation is for you.

Your dreams don't require a unanimous vote. And trusting yourself doesn't mean you'll never make a mistake. It means you trust yourself enough to navigate whatever comes next.

It's time to stop shrinking your life to fit other people's expectations.

Recognize. Reflect. Reinvent.

Welcome to Girl, What Was I Thinking? with Zada Monroe.

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Survival taught you how to get through life. Self-worth teaches you how to stop abandoning yourself while living it. In this episode we are recognizing the survival identity for who she is so that we can move forward with less baggage and a clean slate to do better.