AAAhhhhhhhh beliefs especially beliefs over 50! women have been told a story of who they are for so long the belief system had to change. The programming for so long has been do do do now its take care of yourself first always. Momma puts her mask on first in a plane before she puts one on baby. It used to be God, man, then children. I have always believed if you can't take care of yourself you can't take care of anyone else. This is true of all genders.

Now I identify myself as gender neutral its easier to separate myself from the perspective men have about women.

This episode is eye opening and gives a perspective of men. The misogynistic behaviors exhibited by men is in direct relation to how their mothers took care of them as children. Some mothers did everything for their sons, therefore they spend the rest of their lives looking for this same dynamic. Shaming women for not acting like their mothers. Shaming is done through punishing behaviors: passive aggression, open aggression, verbal abuse, emotional abuse and so on. (This is one perspective its called the Oedopis complex)

The Oedipus complex, also known as the Oedipal complex, describes a child's feelings of desire for their opposite-sex parent and jealousy and anger toward their same-sex parent. The concept was first introduced by Sigmund Freud in his theory of psychosexual stages of development 27, 2023

The unresolved Oedipus complex is known to cause anxiety and confusion regarding relationships in adults and may develop a feeling of competitiveness toward people of the same sex. Jul 7, 2022

Thanks google,,,

our beliefs keep us stuck in one spot if we look within ourselves and change the beliefs inside to reflect on the outside. Learning how to care for ourselves is one way to deflect this behavior and preserve our peace!

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