The fifty-fourth in a series of talks by Swami Nirmalananda Giri (Abbot George Burke) on the Bhagavad Gita, India's most famous scripture: the unforgettable dialog between Sri Krishna and Arjuna about the essence of spiritual life.

In this talk, starting with Chapter 12:14, Swamiji discusses not being agitated by the world, and not agitating the world. He also suggests we should analyze our spiritual surrounding and determine if they help or hinder us.

Here's a summary of the talk by Swami Nirmalananda Giri on "How to be Dear to God.”

• Qualities of a Beloved Yogi: Krishna describes a Yogi who is always content, self-controlled, and firm in resolve as being dear to Him.
• Contentment in the Self: True contentment comes from being aware of one's eternal Self (Atma), not from external circumstances. Japa and meditation is highlighted as a way to maintain this awareness.
• Self-Control and Firm Resolve: Self-control involves not being swayed by external influences but maintaining one's true nature. Firm resolve means having a steadfast commitment to spiritual growth.
• Fixation of Mind and Intellect on God: One should aim to have their mind (emotions and sense impressions) and intellect (reasoning and understanding) fixed on God, creating a deep, unwavering devotion.
• Devotion as Dedication: Devotion is likened to being dedicated to a purpose, where the purpose of life is the realization of the absolute. The body and mind are seen as tools for enlightenment.
• Not Agitating the World: A Yogi should live without causing disturbances, focusing on personal spiritual practice rather than outward activism. This involves living one's truth quietly and not engaging in unnecessary conflict or debate.
• Silence and Action in Context: There's a time for speaking and a time for silence. For Yogis, silence is often more appropriate, especially in relation to the world's ways which might not align with spiritual goals.
• Avoiding Spiritual Distractions: One should avoid people or situations that distract or hinder spiritual progress, much like Arjuna focused only on the eye of the bird when practicing archery, illustrating single-pointed focus.
• The Transience of the World: The world is likened to a bridge; one should pass through it without building permanent attachments. This analogy emphasizes the temporary nature of worldly life compared to the eternal spiritual journey.
• Company and Spiritual Growth: The company one keeps is crucial for spiritual life; associating with those who are also on a spiritual path helps maintain and enhance one's practice, as per the saying "company is greater than willpower."
• Discrimination in Relationships: Spiritual discrimination is necessary in choosing associations, suggesting one should distance from those who are not supportive of or are detrimental to one's spiritual life.

This talk focuses on the internal qualities and attitudes that endear one to God, emphasizing a life of simplicity, focus, and spiritual dedication over worldly engagement.