The Estate Blueprint: Planning Your Future with Tom Begley

Give My House to My Children? Why Not?


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Episode Summary: 

In this essential episode, Tom Begley tackles the widespread question of transferring a home to children, debunking myths around probate, taxes, and long-term care protection. The discussion contrasts risky outright deeds with smarter options like life estates and specialized trusts to preserve step-up basis, avoid Medicaid penalties, and maintain control.

Key Timestamps:  

00:01 - Show Introduction  

00:30 - 3 Myths: Probate, Taxes, Long-Term Care  

01:30 - Outright Deed: Carryover Basis → Kids Pay Gains  

02:30 - Life Estate: Step-Up + Live-In Rights  

03:30 - NJ Medicaid Lien on Life Estate  

04:30 - Residence Trust: Capital Gains Exempt + 5-Yr Shield  

06:00 - NJ Probate = Easiest in USA  

07:00 - 5-Year Lookback + Caregiver Child Exception  

08:30 - Dementia Timing: Diagnose → Plan  

09:30 - Downsides: Control Loss, Sibling Creditors  

10:30 - Wrong Trusts: Revocable = No Protection  

11:30 - When NOT to Transfer: Young or Self-Insured  

12:30 - Closing & Call to Action  

 

About the Show:  

"The Estate Blueprint" delivers clear, actionable guidance on estate planning, Medicaid, special needs trusts, and probate for New Jersey families. Tom Begley combines 35+ years of elder law expertise to protect homes, assets, and peace of mind with plans that work in the real world.

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