As a black gay men, we have a lot of unlearning to do with relationships. Also dating in the social media age, is it hard to navigate romantic relationships and not be influenced by online activity? I talk to my friend Shawn about his dating life, recent break up and therapy experiences. We discuss how we as black gay men, don't give ourselves enough grace when finding true love. Follow Shawn on IG @ _mr.esquire and for more updates follow me on IG @ Daro_Santiago