Today I learned that goals transform you. They change who you currently are. Having a goal that you absolutely have to accomplish is going to make you do things you never did and become somebody you never was. It’s incredible. It’s taught me that every character trait possible is laying in everybody’s repertoire. If I want to be courageous all I have to do is strive towards being courageous. If I want to be laid back all I have to do is strive towards being laid back. The possibility is all in my mind. I really understood this as I watched myself for the first time ever purchase cologne. My goal is to find the type of girl that I want to be with in the long haul. That’s been my goal for awhile now. I’ve been doing various things to strive towards the accomplishment of that goal. Seeing myself order cologne. Spray it on. Then go through the day with it on was something I would of never thought that would happen. Seeing myself be as patient with girls as I am is something that would of never happened not too long ago. I found that in the act in accomplishing goals you meet resistance you wouldn’t of met otherwise. Because you have to power through this resistance you do things you never would of done. Buying and wearing cologne was something that I regarded as being cheesy. I regarded it as being desperate. I held that opinion because back then I thought was probably never gonna find the girl for me. Back then I accepted being single through my in action. But as I recently took steps to attract the girls that I want I notice that my efforts were bearing fruit. This encourages me to put more effort into my love life. Purchasing cologne just seemed to be a logical thing to do to increase my chances of getting a high quality girl. Had I never set that goal and made steps towards accomplishing that goal I would of stayed the same. This is how I can continue my development process. I can always change and become more by just setting new goals. The process of pushing pass resistance and remaining discipline brings out the best in me. It gives me respect for myself. That’s why I have to always have goals. Till the very end.