Sex was divinely designed by God before sin entered the world. The same God that created sex loves you, is for you, and doesn't want you to allow this to make you feel further from or separated from God. Here’s something to know for sure about Jesus: Jesus consistently encounters sexual sinners and sexually broken people. And he never shames them, he never scolds them, he never rejects them, and casts them out. And he won’t shame or scold you either. He simply wants to love you, change you, and give you his grace.