God, the Holy Spirit (Ghost) is HOLY !  He is listening to our words, watching our attitudes and behaviors. Our words matter to HIM. Our motives for our conduct matter as well. The scripture informs us that out of the same mouth proceeds blessing and cursing and this should NOT be so ( James 3:10). Lord teach us to hold our tongues, and cause us to understand wherein we have erred (Job 6: 24). Death and life are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21). Are you speaking life?