This week we are starting our discussion about sex because, for the most part, the world talks about sex and no one else does. There should be a Christian message about sex because God designed it.

God's design for sex:

• spiritual, emotional, physical intimacy
• context of marriage
• discussed in appropriate, respectful ways

1. Myth 1: Sex is dirty. 
   • stems from a desire to discourage immorality
   • typically a female issue
   • God made sex and He is holy. Sex in God's context is also holy. 
   • perspective on sex must change even if you are single
2. Myth 2: Sex is for men. 
   • God designed sex for women too. 
   • Sex is not a duty. 
   • Read Song of Solomon
3. Myth 3: Women don't enjoy or want sex. 
   • Women have more complicated sex drives than men. 
   • God designed women to enjoy sex.
   • Sex is not a duty. (Did we say that already?)

We're coming back next week with two more myths but the major thought is that how you think about sex matters. If your sexuality is a burden as a single person, sex becomes a burden after marriage. If your sexuality is something to flaunt then it ceases to be precious and private. 

Resources: 

• To Love, Honor, and Vacuum
• Hot, Holy, Humorous
• The Marriage Bed

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