The extent of your relationship with God determines the capacity and the grace upon you.  Saul made an error but was concerned with the public’s opinion of him but David was ready to let go of everything to reconcile with God. Don’t follow the character of a man who isn’t following God, for if you make his errors you may not recover from them. God’s righteousness exalts like the horn of a unicorn. If you don’t know the true God that answers by fire, any church, job, or friend will just be okay with you. You will not live, eat, drive, marry, or enjoy ordinary things in Jesus’ name. No man can win the battle of life without seeking help from above. All the battles initiated against you will receive heaven’s judgment and you will not see the last of them in Jesus’ name.