God chooses to permit things to happen that He don't take pleasure in that will accomplish His will. God allows us the ability to make decisions. He his not standing in front of us with a whip in his hand beating us into submission. Adam and Eve is a prime example of God's permissive will. Just know that there are consequences when you are disobedience and walk in God's Permissive will. When we develop a relationship with God and walk in the will of God there is no failure. Imagine how our lives would be if Adam and Eve was in the preceptive will of God. Don't let your decision cause negative consequences in the lives of others.