Going bananas with Arilenepop

I’m wearing his boxers is about a song from TikTok created by Katie Gregson that brought me back to a time in my life where I was in a relationship that wasn’t all that it seemed.. sometimes we lie to ourselves to maintain a pretty memory, but sometimes it’s better to remember the truth to be able to #MoveOn

In hopes of reminding you to keep your eye out for some of these red flags, I talk about narcissistic behaviors and one sided relationships as well as toxic friends… we have to be aware at all times, not everybody’s intentions are as pure as yours.

24 random questions.. I talk about the awkwardest date I’ve ever been on, my strange addictions etc. and trust me things get weird, in a good way.

Knowing when to let go in a relationship is hard.. but it’s even harder when you’ve invested so much, so recognizing that letting go is necessary for both you and your partner in order to keep growing, is key. I talk about why it’s important to choose yourself every single day and understanding your worth.

Birthdays are overrated and I hate the awkwardness of being surrounded by people singing “happy birthday”. I talk about Awkwardness and Confrontation, and why I always cry in confrontational situations! As well as encouraging you to use your voice! And why..

I talk about the fact that a lot of guys send us the same messages and some girls just don’t care. I ask a lot of questions because we all want answers?! Let’s talk about it! Go to my Instagram @arilenepop and let me know your own experiences and point of views.

We all have a future, and some of us don’t think about how doing things for everyone else is affecting your future. I talk about my goals in life to my greatest achievements, but I want you to think about yours.. this is your life and it’s important. Think about it.

I doubt I’m the only one who gets a little frozen when receiving a compliment.. I reminisce past situations... I share why I suck at taking compliments.. and why I’m going to just start saying.. “Thankyou!”

People always seem to stress out about relationships.. whether you want to be in a relationship, or you are In one that is causing you stress... I talk about my first boyfriend and how he structured a life standard for every relationship in my future... to why you shouldn’t think twice before walking away.. and more.

Happiness, we all want to feel it but some of us have trouble getting there. I’ve been through dark times in my life but once I found the key to being happy there’s no going back. From deciding not to go to college to walking away from people and a lot more..