Is this good for what ails your marriage, your business, or even your life? Dr. Elaine Carlson & Dr. Richard Perry of Southern Maine Internal Medicine in Kennebunk, Maine are our first coupleco who were married by a sex therapist. (Really.) More important: their story of leaving big city jobs and starting over with a small business in a rural setting and planning to make less money. This is a tale about quality of life, downsizing, and being true collaborators. And isn't starting over in your mid-40s scary?