Human beings are sentimental, emotional creatures who most grieve our loved ones lost during the  holidays. The empty seat at the table is a stark reminder of a glaring absence. Acknowledge them. Include them. Welcome them home to their own family gathering. We shed tears for a reason. Let them flow. The pain comes in choking them back so let them flow like the river of life. Don't drown in quiet despair.  Celebrate the Season of Light together.