New York is big, bewildering, and complicated. When I first moved to this city, I didnât quite grasp the subway despite my eagerness to learn. I took public transportation to the wrong boroughs, got lost each time I set foot in Brooklyn, and accidentally sent at least a handful of trusting tourists off in the wrong direction only to realize what Iâd done minutes too late. Iâve lived here for seven years and only now do I truly understand the bus.