The relationship that we have with ourselves is complicated. Should we have high self esteem? Or should we have low self esteem? In Paul's letter to the corinthians he says neither is a good solution. We don't have to think more of ourselves, or think less of ourselves, rather we can think of ourselves less. And this is Gospel Humility, because of Jesus we can trust his work on the cross and the verdict he received for us. We are then free to stop connecting everything in life to us and start living a life free from self for the sake of others and God's glory.