What do you care about? Is there something you would give up your life for? Would that something give up itself for you too? If not, then is it worth it? We all choose to align ourselves with something greater than ourselves. Whether that is a country, or a cause, or a whatever. What do you represent? When you do something, are your actions effected by your desire to represent your people in the best light? Will you choose patience if it means bringing someone closer to goodness as opposed to pushing them further away from you?